manifesting love

[DQueens]

how do you manifest love from a specific person who you are in love with that you dont think loves you back?

i would love to hear of people who were "friends" with someone they loved for a long time and then ended up together.

I'm not sure if i really believe in the IM theory, however i really love this guy and i dont know if i can stand the thought of not being with him sometime in the future.

advice?

[ticktockclok]

I don't think its IM you need.

Its economics.

If something is in high supply , people take it for granted.

If something is in low supply, people want it more.

But this thing has to start out in high supply, so that its everywhere and people notice it.

Once that happens, the supply can be lowered to jack up the price and make everyone, who have already noticed it, want it.

[DQueens]

um, thanks for that.
now, does anyone who's not on crack want to post something?

[Lychee]

You should not try to manifest love from a specific person. That person has their own free will, and if they do not want to be with you it is futile to try and intend for them to fall in love with you.

Your last sentence speaks clearly. You say that:

however i really love this guy and i dont know if i can stand the thought of not being with him sometime in the future.

You are limiting opportunities of other great men to be with you by focusing solely on him. The only reason that you are intent in being a relationship with him is because he is the only one in your life right now who fits the criteria that you want in a partner. It is entirely possible that there may be a person better suited for you who you are not aware of yet.

You are attached to him - meaning, you are attached to the outcome of him being your boyfriend/husband. You are limiting possibilities for yourself.

Focus on the ideal relationship that you want. Think about how you want an intimate relationship to be. Are there any specific qualities in a person you require? How do you want to feel when you are in your ideal relationship?

[wolfgang]

I've seen this a couple times in this forum - how to use IM to attract a certain person. I'll reiterate that to "use" IM to attract someone, i.e. make them love you is tantmount to trying to control someone. What kind of relatinoship would that be? I know it may burst your bubble but IM is only about your feelings and how what you generate in your feelings bring you closer to a goal. It's not about messing with someone else's feelings. However, IM can and does help you get clear on how you what to operate in a relationship and from there you will engage people that want to play the other side of the relationship. It may not be a specific person, (probably not), but (I hope) will be even more grand than wishing a certain person will return the feelings. I'm just starting to learn, no expert but that's what I think so far.The Law of Allowance in Relationships - The Universe of Power

[Angela]

Originally Posted by DQueens

how do you manifest love from a specific person who you are in love with that you dont think loves you back?
i would love to hear of people who were "friends" with someone they loved for a long time and then ended up together.

Your idea of love is very much aligned with the person who you maligned with your crack comment. You're operating as though love is a commodity, that you're giving something and that person should give it to you ("love you back"). What kind of friendship is that? A friendship based on trying to "get" something is one where there's no freedom at all, for either of you. If you "get" love, you'll constantly be worried about "keeping" or "losing" it, and you'll both live with the restrictions and insecurities that live in that world. How different would it be for that person if you were generating love and freedom for him (her) rather than trying to squeeze it out of him like toothpaste? How different would be the experience of love for you if you allowed relationship to flower naturally out of love and freedom?

Try generating love for the guy(girl) and other people as well, while surrendering the idea of getting, or being owed, anything. Leave yourself open to unlimited relationship with people. Practice on ticktockclok, who didn't deserve the 'crack' crack.

[Shaden]

I don't think its IM you need.

Its economics.

If something is in high supply , people take it for granted.

If something is in low supply, people want it more.

But this thing has to start out in high supply, so that its everywhere and people notice it.

Once that happens, the supply can be lowered to jack up the price and make everyone, who have already noticed it, want it.

Quite a good analogy you've got there. If a little obtuse lol.

DQueens I think, like most people on this forum, that you are pinning yourself down by focusing solely on one person. I think we've all been in that quite extreme position before. I mean when I got dumped by my last girlfriend I obsessed over her for what must have been a month. This feeling of desire and love passed over a period of time. Eventually I started to see other people in the same way that I had seen her - truly the most liberating feeling of my life.

I think you need to take a step back. Rather then intending a 'specific' person to become immensely attracted to you, intend for a 'great, lovely, caring, romantic, sensitive' guy to walk into your life. You set the criterion yourself but make sure you focus on these points extensively.

Finally, based on the nature of your post, you might struggle to achieve such a thing with IM. It sounds, unfortunately, like the fact that he doesn't love you is already firmly ingrained into your thoughts. There is a very strong chance that will decrease the likelihood of attracting him significantly - and if you get your hopes up too high you might end up hurting yourself.

[ElizaJ]

I totally agree with the posters who have said that you should not use any means, which is tantamount to manipulation, to attract a specific person. There will be negative energy created and this will have ripple effects throughout your life.

Your only request should be for that which was created for you by the Universe, otherwise known as your twin soul or twin flame.