"Feeling Good" & Manifesting A Relationship

[Thomas]

As far as I've learned so far, one of the central points in IM includes feeling good about yourself and what you are attracting. Assuming I'd want to manifest an Angela-style LLTMB relationship ( ;-) ), I've got what feels to me like a very basic question:

Am I doing it right if I visualize and feel a loving connection between me and who I'd like to be in a relationship in?

And, to be more specific, would "visualizing and feeling a loving connection" translate to things like imagining the relationship already happening, thinking about things that would make each other feel loved and so on?

I hope it doesn't sound like I doubt what I'm asking about, because doing so (e. g. visualizing what I'd like) does make me feel good and happy. :-) It feels like I'm stating the obvious, somehow, but then I'd be happy to hear I'm doing it right. ;-)

P. S. If this is better suited for the IM forum, please move it there.

[MySweetLuck]

don't worry Thomas...you are doing the right thing well actually the steps that you mentioned was used by my friend to attract his dream girl..and he got married with her last week...its amazing to use such steps deliberately with faith and persistence....all the best buddy....

[Eric Roosevelt]

When it comes to attracting good relationships I've found that it's important to first focus on yourself. If you can first manifest happiness for yourself and start working on your goals, then people will notice your ambition and want to be around you more.

If you concentrate too much on making a relationship perfect, you may ending up putting pressure on the other person (and yourself) that none of you really wanted.

I personally don't use I-M to attract relationships, although I don't doubt that it could work.

[Thomas]

I'm not really looking for perfection per se. What I'm visualizing are situations, events and pictures that feel great, with both people involved being thoroughly happy and joyful about it all.

Someone have a suggestion how I could improve on this?

[justsbri]

If you are doing exactly what you say, I don't believe that you need any improving. One thing you should try though, is put your physical self into these situations, events, and pictures and feel good about them while you are physically there. I mean after all, aren't you trying to attract another physical body? This person may feel an unknown connection with you and be drawn to where you are. I found my dream shortly after I started doing this. Good Luck!

[Thomas]

Wouldn't putting me in those situations physically be the same as having manifested what I intended?

[TonyToneTone]

What you are doing sounds right. I have no idea what an Angela style LLTMB relationship is but if you are feeling good visualizing what you are visualizing then that is a big indicator that you are on the right track. If you're putting yourself into a vibrational match with what you want, then you have to attract it.

Maybe this exercise will help you?
Want a boyfriend or girlfriend? Do this. | Tony Tells All

[Dreamline]

Hopefully, you aren't just doing all this from your couch. Dream women very rarely knock on your door. Unless the UPS girl is your dream woman.

Jennifer

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by Dreamline

Hopefully, you aren't just doing all this from your couch. Dream women very rarely knock on your door. Unless the UPS girl is your dream woman.

Jennifer

You never know what can happen! Maybe the UPS girl is a hottie

[Thomas]

Someone want to send me something via UPS? ;-)

[Thomas]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

What you are doing sounds right. I have no idea what an Angela style LLTMB relationship is

I think it's first mentioned here: A Letter to a Woman I Love

A loving, long-term, mutually beneficial relationship, Angela-style because the term was coined by Angela on here.

[Thomas]

Originally Posted by Dreamline

Hopefully, you aren't just doing all this from your couch. Dream women very rarely knock on your door. Unless the UPS girl is your dream woman.

I do it all the time, actually. While waiting at the bus stop, while driving, while doing chores, before falling asleep and many more times throughout the day. Sometimes I stop whatever I'm doing and smile for no other reason than a thought along those lines.

[JacksEarth]

So.. you can picture your girl too, even if you don't really have anyone in mind?
I mean let's say for example that you want someone that looks like... eeeh..
Kristen stewart! But maybe has this and that traits.

I mean what does that do? Kinda hard well.. not hard but un-fulfilling to visualize a relationship when you cant see their face

I've been spending a few mornings and nights now just playing in my head a couple of nice scenes~ Hoping im doing the right thing.. although it sounds a lot like im just dreaming, hehe.

[Thomas]

Oh, there is a face, of course. It's less clear than everyday vision, obviously, and I'm focusing more on the fact that it's e. g. smiling or looking happy instead of (say) eye color.