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danas · 01-21-2007, 04:12 PM

hi people- I just manifested an intention- I recently went away on holiday to a deserted beach for 3 days. I decided Im going to meet the love of my life there- which wasnt very likely because it was a very deserted beach. I went with my friends, who decided to go to the mountains for a few days, i decided to stay on the beach alone because I had limited time. I kept sayng to myself that I will meet the love of my life there- even if it didnt seem logical. I even wrote it in my diary- I am now going to find the love of my life on this trip). My friends left and I thought I was the only person left in the resort-. but then, the day they left came a guy, my age (early 30s) all alone. Once we started talking we didnt stop till the sun came up. we slept in his hut (just cuddling). it was amazing! We have so much in common , we even discovered we know many of the same people. I felt WOW! I just manifested my dream. The next morning I had to leave-and he stayed. we exchanged numbers, and he was meant to come back a week ago, but I still havent heard from him... I really want this to work- it just felt so right. hmm... what do I do? wait & keep visualising my dream? call him? or see it as an Alfa reflection and move on.

spirited · 01-21-2007, 04:46 PM

Call him. Now.

danas · 01-21-2007, 04:52 PM

really? but shouldnt he- as a man, make the move? shouldnt i be a bit of a challenge? hmm .... but maybe your right...

Angela · 01-21-2007, 04:59 PM

Call him, don't call him, but whatever you do, remember that love isn't something to "keep" -- it's something to generate. The tighter you hold on, the squirmier it gets. How about manifesting some MORE loves of your life while keeping yourself open (but not attached) to Mr. DreamHut? Don't squander your power.

Hsiang-Lin · 01-21-2007, 05:41 PM

Wow, Angela, thank you for that great piece of advice:

Love isn't something to keep, but rather to generate.

Amazing! That instantly hit a chord with me and I feel much better now with that belief. I'm going to adopt it for a while and see how it works out. I think this might give me better luck with the ladies too

Stevie B · 01-21-2007, 06:45 PM

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Originally Posted by danas

really? but shouldnt he- as a man, make the move? shouldnt i be a bit of a challenge? hmm .... but maybe your right...

I'd suggest that you should question what you believe is considered "the way things should be". The idea that a man should make the first move is letting the universe around you control you, instead of you controling your universe. Choose your path and act in any way that will get you to do what you want. Even if this means going outside of what is consider social norms.

Therefore, call him if that will make you happy. Don't call him if it will make you sad. Either way, do what makes you happy regardless of what you think society says how you should act.

Steve

MGJ · 01-22-2007, 12:20 AM

Love is like a cat... the tighter you hold'em, the more he wants to get away. Ditto on what Angela says... good luck.

danas · 01-22-2007, 05:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Stevie B

I'd suggest that you should question what you believe is considered "the way things should be". The idea that a man should make the first move is letting the universe around you control you, instead of you controling your universe. Choose your path and act in any way that will get you to do what you want. Even if this means going outside of what is consider social norms.

Therefore, call him if that will make you happy. Don't call him if it will make you sad. Either way, do what makes you happy regardless of what you think society says how you should act.

Steve

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Originally Posted by Angela

Call him, don't call him, but whatever you do, remember that love isn't something to "keep" -- it's something to generate. The tighter you hold on, the squirmier it gets. How about manifesting some MORE loves of your life while keeping yourself open (but not attached) to Mr. DreamHut? Don't squander your power.

Very good advice- Thanks. Ill call him in a few days, when it feels right. I guess I should take risks even if it means puting my ego aside, and yes Ill just generate more love- not attachment.

Dating Specialist · 01-22-2007, 05:14 AM

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Originally Posted by danas

Very good advice- Thanks. Ill call him in a few days, when it feels right. I guess I should take risks even if it means puting my ego aside, and yes Ill just generate more love- not attachment.

Hey Danas. First congrats on your manifestation come true.

Secondly, not that I'm here as to spoil everyone's happy mood, but I'd like to remind you that when one goes on a holiday, you're in a total relaxed enjoyable mood. Everyone looks happy to you and vice versa.

So while you may hang on to those happy wonderful moments you spent together in that hut, you may like to pay more attention to how you and him interact if you do get in touch with him.

But, then again, what's stopping you from pursuing your own happiness? All the best to you Danas.

Ollie · 01-22-2007, 02:03 PM

Danas,

Once I thought I had manifested love. Lasted about two days--My belief that the relationship was fate-ordained managed to be what killed it. What Angela said is true: the harder you squeeze the harder you chase it away.

But that experience ending up being a catalyst that really helped me grow a lot. Now I see that if you want to believe in fate, fine, but broaden your expectations of what that fate is trying to do with you. For example, maybe you need to grow more before you are ready to find the love of your life.

Don't let your expectations of your manifestation blind you to who that man is, or what the situation is, or what is really supposed to happen.

Fate/LoA/Chance is taking you somewhere. Let go of making your experience what you think it should be, and instead embrace it for what it is. Happiness is one of those things that you will never find if you look for it. You will spend all your time frustrated that you haven't found it, and if you do think you've found it, you will fear loosing it, and thus not be happy.

When you stop grasping for it, and realize that the most vibrant time of you life is this very moment, you will find that joy has been waiting for you all this time.

As far as practical advice, call him!

p.s. The funny thing is that I'm actually waiting for a girl to call me. She has my number but I don't have hers.

danas · 01-22-2007, 05:06 PM

Hi everyone- Well heres an update- this morning he sent me a very nice mail, with some pics of his paintings- the crazy thing is - one of them was of a woman - with my exact hair and wearing my exact coat (all the buttons were there)!!-
I realised not only did I manifest him, but he manifested me too! We will meet soon and take it slow...
Ollie- I dont really believe in fate ( i believe we can choose from many paths) but I do believe in IM- if it works for parking spaces, large amounts of money, and other crazy dreams why shouldnt it work here..? The more I believe- the more it works...

TheHulaQueen · 01-22-2007, 07:11 PM

YAHHHH!! That's so amazing! Sounds like you have things well in hand and will really enjoy seeing him again. Will you wear the coat?? *grin*

Gordon · 01-22-2007, 09:31 PM

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Originally Posted by danas

really? but shouldnt he- as a man, make the move? shouldnt i be a bit of a challenge? hmm .... but maybe your right...

No, call him NOW....men are basically stupid (I should know)!!!! He will be sitting there not knowing whether he should call you or not, in case he appears too pushy. Honestly we are as thick as mince!!! Phone him now for more cuddles.

G

Holistic Star · 01-22-2007, 09:55 PM

IMO, many men like it if women make the first move. Besides which I wouldn't want to be with a man that was intimidated by a confident women anyway.

True story. I asked my H out on a date the second time I met him. I actaully asked him if he would like to go to the theatre with me sometime, but he mis-heard and thought I asked if he would like to sleep with me sometime! Anyway, it worked and 5 years on we are still together

Glad you heard from him and the painting sounds lovely. Hope you can relax and and enjoy the journey

danas · 01-23-2007, 06:16 AM

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Originally Posted by Holistic Star

True story. I asked my H out on a date the second time I met him. I actaully asked him if he would like to go to the theatre with me sometime, but he mis-heard and thought I asked if he would like to sleep with me sometime!

Thats very funny, sounds like the angels were there working on getting you two together...

Isis Kali · 01-26-2007, 08:15 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by danas

Hi everyone- Well heres an update- this morning he sent me a very nice mail, with some pics of his paintings- the crazy thing is - one of them was of a woman - with my exact hair and wearing my exact coat (all the buttons were there)!!-
I realised not only did I manifest him, but he manifested me too! We will meet soon and take it slow...
Ollie- I dont really believe in fate ( i believe we can choose from many paths) but I do believe in IM- if it works for parking spaces, large amounts of money, and other crazy dreams why shouldnt it work here..? The more I believe- the more it works...

Ooooh...that's so sweet! *melts*

wolfgang · 01-26-2007, 11:34 AM

What sweet story. It occurs to me that when two people are falling in love there are tons of pure thoughts that are so positive and thinking about each other, etc... that it's sort of like doing IM exercises (maybe). So then the LoA kicks in and you get cool syncronisities. I can remember having times with a gf where we were so tuned in to each other that we'd say the say thing often as well as unusual occurances from things like the radio playing a song at a particular moment or having schedules seem to automatically clear so we could see each other. The painting that the guy did - wow.

01-21-2007, 04:12 PM	#1 (permalink)
danas Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: New York, NY Posts: 1,676	manifested love.. how can I keep it hi people- I just manifested an intention- I recently went away on holiday to a deserted beach for 3 days. I decided Im going to meet the love of my life there- which wasnt very likely because it was a very deserted beach. I went with my friends, who decided to go to the mountains for a few days, i decided to stay on the beach alone because I had limited time. I kept sayng to myself that I will meet the love of my life there- even if it didnt seem logical. I even wrote it in my diary- I am now going to find the love of my life on this trip). My friends left and I thought I was the only person left in the resort-. but then, the day they left came a guy, my age (early 30s) all alone. Once we started talking we didnt stop till the sun came up. we slept in his hut (just cuddling). it was amazing! We have so much in common , we even discovered we know many of the same people. I felt WOW! I just manifested my dream. The next morning I had to leave-and he stayed. we exchanged numbers, and he was meant to come back a week ago, but I still havent heard from him... I really want this to work- it just felt so right. hmm... what do I do? wait & keep visualising my dream? call him? or see it as an Alfa reflection and move on.

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01-21-2007, 04:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
spirited Junior Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 15	Call him. Now.

01-21-2007, 04:52 PM	#3 (permalink)
danas Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: New York, NY Posts: 1,676	really? but shouldnt he- as a man, make the move? shouldnt i be a bit of a challenge? hmm .... but maybe your right...

01-21-2007, 04:59 PM	#4 (permalink)
Angela Banned Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 22,520	Call him, don't call him, but whatever you do, remember that love isn't something to "keep" -- it's something to generate. The tighter you hold on, the squirmier it gets. How about manifesting some MORE loves of your life while keeping yourself open (but not attached) to Mr. DreamHut? Don't squander your power.

01-21-2007, 05:41 PM	#5 (permalink)
Hsiang-Lin Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 261	Wow, Angela, thank you for that great piece of advice: Love isn't something to keep, but rather to generate. Amazing! That instantly hit a chord with me and I feel much better now with that belief. I'm going to adopt it for a while and see how it works out. I think this might give me better luck with the ladies too

01-22-2007, 12:20 AM	#7 (permalink)
MGJ Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 60	Love is like a cat... the tighter you hold'em, the more he wants to get away. Ditto on what Angela says... good luck.

01-22-2007, 02:03 PM	#10 (permalink)
Ollie Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 8	Danas, Once I thought I had manifested love. Lasted about two days--My belief that the relationship was fate-ordained managed to be what killed it. What Angela said is true: the harder you squeeze the harder you chase it away. But that experience ending up being a catalyst that really helped me grow a lot. Now I see that if you want to believe in fate, fine, but broaden your expectations of what that fate is trying to do with you. For example, maybe you need to grow more before you are ready to find the love of your life. Don't let your expectations of your manifestation blind you to who that man is, or what the situation is, or what is really supposed to happen. Fate/LoA/Chance is taking you somewhere. Let go of making your experience what you think it should be, and instead embrace it for what it is. Happiness is one of those things that you will never find if you look for it. You will spend all your time frustrated that you haven't found it, and if you do think you've found it, you will fear loosing it, and thus not be happy. When you stop grasping for it, and realize that the most vibrant time of you life is this very moment, you will find that joy has been waiting for you all this time. As far as practical advice, call him! p.s. The funny thing is that I'm actually waiting for a girl to call me. She has my number but I don't have hers.

01-22-2007, 05:06 PM	#11 (permalink)
danas Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: New York, NY Posts: 1,676	Hi everyone- Well heres an update- this morning he sent me a very nice mail, with some pics of his paintings- the crazy thing is - one of them was of a woman - with my exact hair and wearing my exact coat (all the buttons were there)!!- I realised not only did I manifest him, but he manifested me too! We will meet soon and take it slow... Ollie- I dont really believe in fate ( i believe we can choose from many paths) but I do believe in IM- if it works for parking spaces, large amounts of money, and other crazy dreams why shouldnt it work here..? The more I believe- the more it works...

01-22-2007, 07:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
TheHulaQueen Member Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Buckhorn ON Canada Posts: 68	YAHHHH!! That's so amazing! Sounds like you have things well in hand and will really enjoy seeing him again. Will you wear the coat?? grin

01-22-2007, 09:55 PM	#14 (permalink)
Holistic Star Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 1,611	IMO, many men like it if women make the first move. Besides which I wouldn't want to be with a man that was intimidated by a confident women anyway. True story. I asked my H out on a date the second time I met him. I actaully asked him if he would like to go to the theatre with me sometime, but he mis-heard and thought I asked if he would like to sleep with me sometime! Anyway, it worked and 5 years on we are still together Glad you heard from him and the painting sounds lovely. Hope you can relax and and enjoy the journey

01-26-2007, 11:34 AM	#17 (permalink)
wolfgang Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,566	What sweet story. It occurs to me that when two people are falling in love there are tons of pure thoughts that are so positive and thinking about each other, etc... that it's sort of like doing IM exercises (maybe). So then the LoA kicks in and you get cool syncronisities. I can remember having times with a gf where we were so tuned in to each other that we'd say the say thing often as well as unusual occurances from things like the radio playing a song at a particular moment or having schedules seem to automatically clear so we could see each other. The painting that the guy did - wow.

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