Dating, the practical approach.

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You probably haven't heard of me, and that is because I am new here. So please allow me to introduce myself.

My name is Jan Andrew and I am 20 years old. During my time here in this community, I wish to share my philosophies on dating and relationships.

Now, I know what you’re thinking, "20 years old? What do you know? You don't know anything about dating and relationships." All I can say is, judging from your actions of searching the web for answers, you can say the same about yourself regardless of your age.

Though, no matter what a person’s age is, people will find answers even to the most unexpected places. Yes I’m young, but I’ve had many years watching people I know, friends, families, even strangers at this game. And I can say through personal experience, dating, relationships and anything in
between can be agonizing and painful. But, I’m here to tell you that…it doesn’t have to be.

Now, my philosophies are unlike most websites or books that you have seen or read. I pride myself on being practical with everything I do which leads
me to my goal: to share my wisdom and help those in need.

Many people are at the peak of frustration. Many have searched for answers in books, websites, friends, families, and even coaches. But wherever they look, they can't seem to break the curse that comes with dating.

When it comes to dating and relationships, I know many people mess up by acting like complete jerks or being too much of a nice guy. Some realize
their mistakes and feel that a solution is to always walk on egg shells and perform some sort of balancing act of every type of personality just to
please the person they like. Some can't create and maintain attraction and end up losing the significant other. And some makes the worst mistake of them all, by being a coward, being too slow to act. You simply didn't have the courage, or the confidence to approach, flirt, converse, and ask the woman out on a date. If you fall under that last sentence then I want you to raise your hand up high, and slap yourself!

As I said earlier, my job here is to share practical information with realistic analogies that are easy for you to understand. Many information you
gather out there are sometimes too vague and in better cases, they give you all the information, but they don’t really tell you how to apply
them in real life situations. With that said, this is where I come in. Don't lose hope.

Anyway, I know you may not agree with my philosophies on dating and relationships, but I ask that you open your mind, be flexible, and be prepared to challenge your present views and allow yourself to be filled with new philosophies.

After all, a different approach may just be what you need.


Jan Andrew

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So what is your philosophy

ps since you are only 20, how long you been learning for and whats you longest relationship and how much have you dated