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05-01-2009, 07:56 PM
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Ok here we go again, there is a guy in our office who ive never really took any notice of before. But 2 weeks ago we got chatting in the office kitchen and we started to chat and chat, he started to mock me in a cute way....as we seem to bounce humor of each other together. Anyway when we see each other in the office he always mocks me in a friendly manner-hence I give the same. He has started to touch me, no not like that by mockingly hitting him or touching me my shoulder. He says I'm mad, and he said laughingly I'm glad your here as you are just a crazy woman. (hmmn not sure about that but I think it was meant affectionately). He always tries to wind me up, and it was a bit embarrassing today as it seems were the only ones in the office kinda messing around. I really like him know but not sure whether he likes me or not but I do feel this flirting, as were the only ones who do this. Plus he can never walk past me without saying something to me. Sorry but gonna ask the question even though I'm old enough too know ...the actions i described that he does to me does this suggest he likes me?  Plus I think around a month ago before I really knew him he sent me a email message saying Hi. |
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05-01-2009, 10:08 PM
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cimeow, If I act like this to a woman, who I only know for 2 weeks, it's most likely because I'm attracted to her  And humor a definitly a key in a good relationship! Since you have a connection already, why not ask him out? It is unlikely that he refuses that offer. And just see what happens... Good luck! |
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05-02-2009, 06:50 AM
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Act hot and cold. Sometimes be very receptive to his advances other times be very cold to his approach, when you are cold if he does like you he will quickly try and validate himself. Noting that he does like you its very obvious. Being hot and cold will enable you to control the tempo of the relationship. This is also known as push and pull. It works because if you are too cold he will stop flirting and move on, if you are to warm you are not enough of a challenge and he will lose interest.
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05-02-2009, 08:35 PM
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you could choose to NOT play games and ask him out. | |
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