Abit of confusion

[Sinjamos]

well where do i start, im not sure if its paranoia or a trust issue maybe both?... im with a girl whos had it prety rough i guess? well she has a kid whos about 1 and ive turned into somewhat the step dad.
The reason i am writing here is because im not sure wether to end it or not, can i trust a girl who in the past has cheated and lied etc to her ex boyfriends? she says to me she has "shaved her spots" and isnt that girl that she use to be. I know for a fact she got around abit.... flings etc, one night stands. I do believe that shes changed and that shes commited to me... ok i admit i have checked her phone at times to see if my gut feeling is correct... but theres nothing on there that gives me any evidence of cheating. one night she went to a party, where she promised she would wear jeans and not this extremly short skirt, in the end it turns out she broke her promise as i saw her wearing the skirt and not the jeans as i saw in these photos i only just found... ok sure shes probably just enjoying life and being who she is, should i need to worry? ive had my expriences in the past and just dont want things to end like my 1st serious relationship. my current girl and i get along well and things seem like there going well, im soon to be moving in with her after im back from ozzy which im leaving to in a couple weeks, but again what could happen while im in a new country? what do i do?

feel free to ask any questions if you need to clear anything up about what ive said.

Help much appreciated.

[Harmonium]

protect yourself by expecting her to cheat on you, imo. Chances are she probably didn't really muture and change.. Life is just waiting for your guard to drop

Just be ready

[Sinjamos]

well im sure as hell hoping it wont come to that but... yeah i will keep my guard up just incase....sometimes its just hard because i dont want anything like that happening in this relationship because i dont want to go through it again....