how can i get a woman to like me and i am a woman?

[loveliketheflowers]

hello.....i think i am bi. i have been with a woman before and i really want to be with a woman again, but it is so hard to find girls/women to be with. i have looked on craigslist and have gotten responses but i don't know how to go about going to the next level (going out for dinner, maybe a drink, listen to some live tunes, go to the beach). its easy for me to talk to a guy, they seem to be a bit more open and easy to talk to. but when i talk to a woman i don't know what to ask or what to say but general questions (where ya live, how old are you, hobbies). i don't want to turn her off. how do women meet women if they want to be sensual and intimate with that person? i don't want a relationship with a woman i just want to experience a woman. but i don't know how to open up the conversation. and if we met in person, i'm nervous on how that will go, what we would talk about, would it be awkward? can anyone help me with some advice on how to meet a woman and how to get a woman or attract a woman to me. i don't really know how to pose the question, i hope you understand what i'm trying to say. thx, cheers.

[ssandra]

If you just want sex you could join www.adultfriendfinder.com

Alternatively, find a bi or lesbian online community and join that (forum or chat), there are plenty.

I would however suggest to be open up front about not wanting to be in a relationship, and just wanting the experience.

It is not nice feeling used, by men or women...

And for the rest... just relax and enjoy. Ask the questions where you want the answer to, flirt, touch, smile... just as if you are with a boy. It will get more relaxed with time.

Good luck and enjoy!!

[TonyToneTone]

Originally Posted by loveliketheflowers

hello.....i think i am bi. i have been with a woman before and i really want to be with a woman again, but it is so hard to find girls/women to be with. i have looked on craigslist and have gotten responses but i don't know how to go about going to the next level (going out for dinner, maybe a drink, listen to some live tunes, go to the beach). its easy for me to talk to a guy, they seem to be a bit more open and easy to talk to. but when i talk to a woman i don't know what to ask or what to say but general questions (where ya live, how old are you, hobbies). i don't want to turn her off. how do women meet women if they want to be sensual and intimate with that person? i don't want a relationship with a woman i just want to experience a woman. but i don't know how to open up the conversation. and if we met in person, i'm nervous on how that will go, what we would talk about, would it be awkward? can anyone help me with some advice on how to meet a woman and how to get a woman or attract a woman to me. i don't really know how to pose the question, i hope you understand what i'm trying to say. thx, cheers.

Go to a gay club. Problem solved.

[aelle]

Originally Posted by TonyToneTone

Go to a gay club. Problem solved.

I was going to say just that. I always get hit on by girls in gay or gay friendly bars, even though I'm definitely not sending signals that I'm interested.