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Boo · 03-11-2009, 12:37 AM

Hi All

me and my best friend we have been friends for 9 years she use to go out with my brother once she broke up with him she is totally changed with me as well I feel so used and very upset

magi13 · 03-11-2009, 12:46 AM

how do you wish the forum members help you?

drama07 · 03-12-2009, 02:00 AM

Sorry no sympathy here

Foggy · 03-12-2009, 10:33 PM

I'm sorry for your loss, but I would avoid feeling too bad about this. There are many other possibilities to consider than that she was just your friend because she was dating your brother. If they broke up recently it could be that she's trying to avoid contact with you because she wants to avoid contact with your brother, and once she moves on a little bit she'll settle back down into acting like she used to around you.

funchy · 03-13-2009, 12:23 AM

I don't understand your question. Can you try rephrasing it into complete sentences?

SimonaRich · 03-13-2009, 04:09 PM

Probably she feels ashamed that she split up with your brother therefore she avoids being with you. There is nothing wrong with her, she just does not feel comfortable with this situation.

You can call her/approach her and explain that you do not feel any anger towards her for what she has done to your brother.

RT Wolf · 03-13-2009, 05:44 PM

If you just need someone to listen, feel free to write here how you're feeling. You could also talk to someone in real life.

zack637 · 03-16-2009, 08:22 PM

Boo

Trezker · 03-17-2009, 08:57 AM

"What? Boo is outraged! See his fury! It's small, so look close. Trust me, it's there."

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Boo Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 2	Boo Hi All me and my best friend we have been friends for 9 years she use to go out with my brother once she broke up with him she is totally changed with me as well I feel so used and very upset

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03-11-2009, 12:46 AM	#2 (permalink)
magi13 Family Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Philippines Posts: 1,421	how do you wish the forum members help you?

03-12-2009, 02:00 AM	#3 (permalink)
drama07 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 352	Sorry no sympathy here

03-12-2009, 10:33 PM	#4 (permalink)
Foggy Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Maine Posts: 254	I'm sorry for your loss, but I would avoid feeling too bad about this. There are many other possibilities to consider than that she was just your friend because she was dating your brother. If they broke up recently it could be that she's trying to avoid contact with you because she wants to avoid contact with your brother, and once she moves on a little bit she'll settle back down into acting like she used to around you.

03-13-2009, 12:23 AM	#5 (permalink)
funchy Family Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: east coast, USA Posts: 1,628	I don't understand your question. Can you try rephrasing it into complete sentences?

03-13-2009, 04:09 PM	#6 (permalink)
SimonaRich Banned Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: London, United Kingdom Posts: 912	Probably she feels ashamed that she split up with your brother therefore she avoids being with you. There is nothing wrong with her, she just does not feel comfortable with this situation. You can call her/approach her and explain that you do not feel any anger towards her for what she has done to your brother.

03-13-2009, 05:44 PM	#7 (permalink)
RT Wolf Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Toronto, Canuckland Posts: 1,737	If you just need someone to listen, feel free to write here how you're feeling. You could also talk to someone in real life.

03-16-2009, 08:22 PM	#8 (permalink)
zack637 Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 67	Boo

03-17-2009, 08:57 AM	#9 (permalink)
Trezker Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 962	"What? Boo is outraged! See his fury! It's small, so look close. Trust me, it's there." Baldur's Gate series - Wikiquote

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