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Old 02-23-2009, 07:44 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Meeting lots of women during the day

For the guys on here that want a REALLY easy method for meeting women during the day, I recommend NY Pick-up Artist Paul Janka's number method:
Paul Janka - Getting Laid in NYC - read here.. - PUA Reviews and Ratings

Basically, Paul says to see a woman you like, walk up, compliment her, tell her you'd like to take her out for drinks (or whatever you like), get the number and get out in a minute or less.

This method builds attraction, cuts to the chase, gets you the number, sets something up, and leaves a positive impression in the woman's mind.

Since I read about this my day game has gone through the ROOF! It's so simple and easy to do. Also, for me, it showed me that you CAN compliment a woman (not that I wouldn't have before) and that it will lead to good things. Try it out. It's very easy to memorize and understand.

For something funny, check out the short second video of Paul on the Tyra Banks show:
Paul Janka on Dr Phil, Tyra Videos, Audio Interview - PUA Reviews and Ratings

PS - This same method can work just as well for women.
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Old 02-23-2009, 07:48 AM   #2 (permalink)
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This only works if you're not shy and scared of rejection/getting ****ed over.
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This only works if you're not shy and scared of rejection/getting ****ed over.

Yes, shyness requires a little more work on the subconscious mind through visualizations and mental picturing.
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Awesome. Straight forward, honest, and the worst that can happen is you make a girl's day.

Love your posts Tony.
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This only works if you're not shy and scared of rejection/getting ****ed over.
Just practice it and tweak things as you go. You'll get better the more you do it. Picking up women, like anything else is a skill.

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I definitely agree!

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Awesome. Straight forward, honest, and the worst that can happen is you make a girl's day.

Love your posts Tony.
haha! Thanks Plato. I appreciate the support.
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I've needed good material and information for day game as I would like to start doing more of this.

While you may consistently score numbers with this direct approach, how much do they translate into actual successful meetings? My concern, is you don't leave much of a first impression for the girl to be willing to answer your call or want to meet up with you.
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Links are down,

I've needed good material and information for day game as I would like to start doing more of this.

While you may consistently score numbers with this direct approach, how much do they translate into actual successful meetings? My concern, is you don't leave much of a first impression for the girl to be willing to answer your call or want to meet up with you.


Paul Janka - Getting Laid in NYC - read here.. - PUA Reviews and Ratings Please try it again.

This is IMO the best material for day game,

To me, you leave the best kind of first impression. You come off confident and direct, know what to say, and leave a positive impresison. The girl wonders "Who was that confident guy that just came and got my number?"

As for my success rate with it, t's been pretty much spot on. Only one girl out of all the girls I used that method with didn't turn into a meeting bc after talking to her, I didn't want to see her. Try it out. It's like the magic key to meeting women during the day.
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Just practice it and tweak things as you go. You'll get better the more you do it. Picking up women, like anything else is a skill.



I definitely agree!



haha! Thanks Plato. I appreciate the support.
Yeah, this is true though I'm not looking for a quick lay. I'm looking for more than that. So I really don't know how to get them to be interested for a relationship......and I'm not too keen on reading people either.
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Yeah, this is true though I'm not looking for a quick lay. I'm looking for more than that. So I really don't know how to get them to be interested for a relationship......and I'm not too keen on reading people either.
Whether you're looking for a quick lay or to build a relationship, you first need to understand how to approach and attract a woman. What you do after that is up to you.

As for reading people, when you're out with her, ask her about her interests, see what she wants long term, etc... It'll be pretty clear from the get go.
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Whether you're looking for a quick lay or to build a relationship, you first need to understand how to approach and attract a woman. What you do after that is up to you.

As for reading people, when you're out with her, ask her about her interests, see what she wants long term, etc... It'll be pretty clear from the get go.
Alright, and how do you wind up going about attracting girls? Approaching is near impossible so you can guess I'm clueless about attraction.
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Learn from the advice on building confidence that Steve and many PUA teach, and work slowly towards becoming more habituated to talking to people. Talk to everybody, starting with those people who do not present a challenge to you. Many instructors in the PUA community felt clueless one or 2 years before they became instructors. It took them only that much to become really good. It's not a problem how to overcome shyness. It only a matter of time.
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Learn from the advice on building confidence that Steve and many PUA teach, and work slowly towards becoming more habituated to talking to people. Talk to everybody, starting with those people who do not present a challenge to you. Many instructors in the PUA community felt clueless one or 2 years before they became instructors. It took them only that much to become really good. It's not a problem how to overcome shyness. It only a matter of time.
This is very true. When my friends and I first started out (maybe over 10 years ago), we would say things like "No one can leave here until every guy talks to at least ten women" or "We can't go home until everyone has 3 numbers" or something like that. Make it fun.
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