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Old 02-21-2009, 10:35 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Default Noticing that a gap has widened.

I know that this has always been, but lately I’ve been more aware of the separation of the two. It seems like a huge gash has been cut between to distinct types of people. I’ve noticed this at my job, with myself and a few of my co-workers, my friend at her job and with my daughter as well.

Me, my co-workers, my friend & my daughter have always been types of people who attempt to show unconditional love, understanding and patience to others. In the last month or so I’ve noticed that certain people in our lives have become very different. I don’t want to use labels but for lack of anything else, I’d say they have become mean, manipulative, angry (emotions in that vein). And I’m not saying just a little, I am saying extremely hostile toward us. To the points of gossiping, plotting to get one fired, turning old friends against one another.

With the adults I would explain it away as stress from the worlds current situation, but what about the children? My daughter, who is 9, is finding that ‘friends’ she had 2 weeks ago have now become her sworn enemy. I know this happens in childhood, but I suppose I’m more keen to it because it is happening to every important person in my life at the same time.

Part of me knows that we brought this to ourselves. I fare better than the others I’ve mentioned, at present, no one is trying to get me fired (that I know of) or manipulating others to turn against me. I would say I’m more of an observer, wondering what the heck is going on.

Is it a vibrational shift? Are certain vibrational energies rising while others are simultaneously dropping?

I would appreciate any insight. Thanks.
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My belief is that reality is a reflection of our consciousness

Meaning this situation is a reflection of your consciousness as reality. You are going through this situation because you need to come to realisation about yourself. You need to clear your head and ask what am I meant to learn from this person until you realise something profound. It will be a realisation about yourself as a person.
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