| |||||||
| Social & Relationships Social skills, friends, dating, sex, seduction, monogamy, polyamory, marriage, alternative relationships, soul mates, parenting, children, family life, education |
|
Welcome to the Personal Development for Smart People Forums, the place for lively, intelligent discussion of all personal growth issues -- physical, mental, financial, social, emotional, spiritual, and more. You're currently viewing as a guest, which gives you limited read-only access. By joining our free community, you'll be able to post your own messages, access many members-only features, see the new messages posted since your last visit, and of course remove this header message. Registration is fast, simple, and free, so please join today. If you arrived here from a search engine, you may want to explore the main site first, which includes hundreds of deep and insightful articles on a variety of personal development topics. |
 |
| | Thread Tools | Display Modes |
02-16-2009, 08:37 PM
| #1 (permalink) |
| Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2009
Posts: 1
 |  Couple friends, sounds kind of simple but...
Couple friends, sounds kind of simple but... My long-term girlfriend and I are seeking couple friends, in the swinging lifestyle. Meanwhile she found a married man, who is also in the lifestyle that she really clicks with. His wife and I don’t click on any level friendship or otherwise. Knowing that the only way she can see him is to bring separate play into the equation. She and I are currently "playing separately" as far as our swinging acquaintances understand. But because we are sharing both a sexual and emotional bond that last more than one night we both understand that we are much closer to living a polyamorous lifestyle. This is something new and challenging for both of us. At first it was just me but now we both are concerned about the strength of our sexual ties and the longevity of our relationship. During some of our first lengthy discussions, I shared with her that I felt the only way I would feel comfortable seeking separate play would be with single women. My reason, I simply would not want to potentially stir up the kind of issues we have had in another couples relationship. Now, after recently calling, a new single female friend to meet. We are now BOTH feeling a need to reconnect and do not know quite how to get those strong couple feelings back , any suggestions. |
|      |
|
02-16-2009, 10:27 PM
| #2 (permalink) |
| Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 154
|
I didn't really follow that. Are you saying your swinging has sort of made you grow apart and now you're looking for a way to reconnect as a couple?
__________________ Is your world a lie? How would you know if it was? Find the answer >> |
|
| |
|
| Bookmarks |
« Previous Thread
|
Next Thread »
| Thread Tools | |
| Display Modes | |
Linear Mode
| |
Similar Threads | ||||
| Thread | Thread Starter | Forum | Replies | Last Post |
| ignoring certain sounds | alloftheabove | Personal Effectiveness | 2 | 10-08-2008 03:04 PM |
| Does this sounds like a scam? | fangvain | Psychic & Paranormal | 16 | 09-10-2008 06:03 AM |
| Just quit my job sounds simple | EnduranceNinja | Personal Effectiveness | 9 | 01-26-2008 06:30 PM |
| subjective reality sounds good to me | Karess | Spirituality, Consciousness, & Awareness | 31 | 01-19-2007 07:33 PM |
All times are GMT. The time now is 02:37 PM.