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Old 01-29-2009, 12:57 AM
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As I have seen all of the posts and Steve's writings about polyamory I have been trying to wrap my brain around it. What recently occurred to me is that I am in a "polyish" relationship or maybe not, but this one helps me to see how it works. I am a widow, my husband passed away over 10 years ago when I was still quite young. I am now in love with another man (took a long time to get to this place). I still love my husband and have a spiritual relationship with him. We communicate on a different level. On very rare (and special) occassions have sex in my dreams. My current boyfriend knows all about my departed husband and I feel that there is a strong connection between the three of us. In fact I have a strong feeling that my husband sent him to me. I guess I am the point on the v...
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That's lovely! How wonderful to continue with that bond, even though it's changed significantly.
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