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Old 01-28-2009, 02:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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For years I struggled to muster the courage to go out at Friday nights as I'm kind of shy.

However, today it just changed somehow and I'm going to ask my brother(who is a social butterfly), if he wants to go out with me together.

Wish me luck!
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Old 01-28-2009, 03:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Of course I'll let you know how it went.
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Old 02-10-2009, 04:30 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Update:

I went outside yesterday with my brother and I was (literally) shaking of excitement. It seems like all my fears have been for nothing. It's nothing specially hard really.

However, we were only two, and he hasn't invited any friends. I'll keep you updated when that happens, seems like it's going to be soon.

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I manifested a jogging buddy. The same day that I started with S.R.!
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Old 02-10-2009, 08:30 PM   #4 (permalink)
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It is great that you have overcome your fear of going out! Wish you luck in everything you do!
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Fear and excitement are two sides of the same coin, in some ways. Congratz!
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Old 02-11-2009, 10:15 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Thank you a lot, I really appreciate it.

(Thought that noone is going to reply...)

Anyways, since I got this wonderful replies, I'll keep you updated with what comes next.
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Old 02-13-2009, 06:54 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Enjoyed a nice chat with my new jogging buddy while, well...jogging.
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Hi Aleksander,
congratulations for oversoming your fear and taking action.
keep it up. good luck.
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For years I struggled to muster the courage to go out at Friday nights as I'm kind of shy.

However, today it just changed somehow and I'm going to ask my brother(who is a social butterfly), if he wants to go out with me together.

Wish me luck!
RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was going to start a thread on this same thing. What did you end up doing?
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RAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I was going to start a thread on this same thing. What did you end up doing?
Right now I'm on hiatus, but am still going out with my brother soon.
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Yet another nice conversation with my jogging buddy, I was way more relaxed than usually.
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Rock on!
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Sounds like things went well for ya. Isn't it crazy how things change once you decide to finally take action? Regardless of the outcome, you always have a better possibility of something good happening by just taking action alone.
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Hell yeah!

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Sounds like things went well for ya. Isn't it crazy how things change once you decide to finally take action? Regardless of the outcome, you always have a better possibility of something good happening by just taking action alone.
Hell yeah again!
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Going out in 15 minutes, nervous as usually.
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Next step: pick up.

Just kidding. Whatever you do, don't start drinking to become more "sociable". That's the mistake that most people make when they start going out. Stay relatively sober until you get the hang of things. Anyway, good to see you're confronting your fears. Make sure you have fun as well.
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