Relationship Denial

[straysweeper]

I have realized lately, that I've linked getting healthy and fit, becoming financially independent and successful are all to find love with a remarkable woman. But I have to become remarkable first. I like to think I'm remarkable myself, but I don't think others see that in me. I want to do extraordinary things, and I think that is what makes me remarkable. That and never giving up.

I've been in denial that this isn't important to me, or that this can wait. Health and Finances always seem like big problem in my life. Kind of hard to think on a relationship, when these things aren't smoother, but working on them with someone, as well as a future, and having someone to share my ideas and passion with... I can't help but think that would magnify and speed up my growth.

How many of you out there found your someone without being at the finish line or when you least expected it? I have a theory that while your pursuing the life you want, they tend to be on a similar path. Is that true for you, where you pursuing your goals and stumble across each other?