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Old 01-14-2009, 05:24 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Why do so many guys think that girls kissing/dancing with/touching other girls/etc. is so sexy?
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Old 01-14-2009, 06:22 AM   #2 (permalink)
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The feminine energies in such an encounter are greater than the sum of their parts. Hurray for synergy!
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Old 01-14-2009, 07:27 AM   #3 (permalink)
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How many girls like to watch guy/guy action? If it's significant amount then it would be a common thing to both sexes.
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Old 01-14-2009, 07:40 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I know a few girl friends like guy-guy action and they're straight.
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Old 01-14-2009, 10:50 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I'm a girl and I find it really hot when 2 hot guys kiss! I'd prefer if they were bi though and not gay. hehe
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Why do so many guys think that girls kissing/dancing with/touching other girls/etc. is so sexy?
It's a semi-sexual act, and is biologically stimulating. I use to enjoy this behavior, before I took control of my character, but don't find it attractive at all these days.
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Old 01-14-2009, 03:27 PM   #7 (permalink)
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No idea off hand. Try looking into the field of "sexology". The psychological study of sex.

BTW, one of the studies I read recently found that women were turned on by man-man, man-woman and woman-woman while men were only turned on by woman-man and woman-woman. Except for the gay guys, obviously. This led the researchers to conclude women have greater erotoplasticity. Which may be my favourite word ever.
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Old 01-14-2009, 08:28 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I wonder the same thing myself
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Old 01-14-2009, 08:38 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Well one girl is pretty, two girls are double the pretty.
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Hmmm... well, I think honestly that if we were to take a mathematical view on this, and take ourselves completely out of social conditioning--so much so that we're only in hypothetical-land--that all sexual interaction would be exciting to watch. Now, saying this is all social conditioning may be a cop-out, and I don't believe it's that simple, but I think it has a lot to do with it.

Personally, as a woman, I get turned on by all sexual interaction except male-male. I also have vastly different protective issues between having sex with men and having sex with women. That is, having sex with a woman seems much more along a spectrum of human interaction and never threatening, whereas sex with a man is...well, completely another category, and an area I'm much more interested in "protecting" myself in. I believe this is a result of my conditioning.

That being said, I think I have certain emotions about men and their roles in a sexual interaction that make...well, to be blunt, it makes the role of a man as the receiving/penetrated end of a sexual interaction completely unattractive. Don't know why, but the penetration has a lot to do with it--for me. Not that it's power/submission, necessarily, as I like playing both sides of that coin in my (straight) relationship, if any at all. For some reason the penetration aspect has something to do with it. Don't know how to define that, though.

I'm not saying this is correct or incorrect, universal or individual; I don't mean to offend anyone by this, I'm merely stating what are my own emotions. By the way, I don't mean to say I'm grossed out by (male) gay relationships or gay sex, i'm just saying it doesn't arouse me sexually, even while I think it can be quite SEXY. Hmmm...strange, that. Sexy, not sexually arousing. I can appreciate the sexiness without getting involved sexually myself.
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I don't think it;s sexy, it's just a waste!
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Old 01-15-2009, 12:21 AM   #12 (permalink)
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"erotoplasticity. Which may be my favourite word ever."

i think its my favorite too now
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Crescive pretty much said it for me. If you desire something, why have 1 when you can have 2 for the same price? That's why.
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"erotoplasticity. Which may be my favourite word ever."

i think its my favorite too now
Haha, yea. I'm doing psychology and I wanna do a specialty in Sexology just so I can add Sexologist to my business card. Sounds like a really bad porn movie. "Wood Gundy, Sexologist"
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Old 01-15-2009, 04:46 AM   #15 (permalink)
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Different question that might help you find an answer:

Would you prefer three females, two females and one male, or one female and two males? Participatory or not.

Flip the combinations for females.

And yeah, I know it's comparatively rare and boggles the mind anyways, but that feels like it could clarify.
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I dont really find too much interest in it.
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I'm a girl and I find it really hot when 2 hot guys kiss! I'd prefer if they were bi though and not gay. hehe
Me too but it's even better when there is a 3 or more with a female(s)
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imo opinion most straight guys like girl on girl if the girls are pretty...if they were honest i do not think they would like say, one feminine looking woman with a more dominant mannish looking one....they want girly girls doing it then wanting to do them...
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Its only arousing for me if I find them attractive.. and they are bisexual.. and theres a possibility I could lend a hand lol
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Why stop at two? The more, the merrier .
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attraction isn't a choice. some guys are just attracted to that. some guys aren't. guess that means it's biological or something. who cares why though. I don't need any more ideas for random research studies
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who knows...there may already be government funding for that
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I blame Wrigley Doublemint gum advertisements. Guys have the idea of "double your pleasure, double your fun" ingrained in our minds. So 2 women > 1 woman. Yes, that must be it.
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I'm a 17 year old guy and get no pleasure from girl - girl action O_o

most people think im gay, although im not :l

but every guy i know thinks this stuff is HAWT hahaha! ^_^
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Why do so many guys think that girls kissing/dancing with/touching other girls/etc. is so sexy?
Two times as much everything!
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I'm not real crazy about it.

I mean, I won't complain about it, but it's not really my cup of tea either. I'm just "meh" about it.
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have you seen the movie big fish? lol
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How many girls like to watch guy/guy action? If it's significant amount then it would be a common thing to both sexes.
Judging from all the women I get to know through various fandoms, I'm going to say "all."
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have you seen the movie big fish? lol
No? Any good?
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because we want to get in on the action
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