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Old 12-15-2008, 07:43 AM   #1 (permalink)
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K guys, I've made a lot of progress lately
Am now getting married to someone really special! and yes, I still have challenges!

How does one overcome cold feet while being engaged and heading towards the wedding?
I'm totally fine when I'm with my fiance. But we're in a long distance relationship and sometimes I get scared, usually not because I see some flaw in her but because I'm committing for life. the feeling's there only once in a while.
Any ideas?

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Old 12-15-2008, 10:27 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Breathe and remind yourself why you started down the road in the first place. You decided to do this; you had reasons good enough for yourself; you love her. Write down a stupid love poem for her every morning. Or every week. Or whatever is your thing. Send it to her.

Or start planning the inevitable wedding photo website everyone seems to have these days...
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That's a great idea! thanks
I need to keep writing and coming up actively with romantic ideas, make a habit with being innovative that way.
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