Coming From a Different Place: Building Them Up

[Jr Billionaire]

ask yourself, if you wanted to be higher value then the girl you were talking to. would you 1) stop her and tell her that she is cute in a geeky way or
2) tell her that you think she is beautiful in that pink shirt she has on

nowadays, its very "cool" to put a girl down to make you feel good about yourself. basically trying to make her feel like **** or less then her best. thats NOT the way to go


in essence there is a way to go. building her up instead of pushing her down. I want you to imagine, a jay z- type walking to a girl and saying " damn that dress makes you look sexy in a hand model type of way?" or would he come up like " ma, that dress... is amazing you looking real good tonight" being funny is for lamers with low self esteem when you can approach a woman and say whats on your mind and have the guts to not want something from her in return shows how high up you really are, and it doesn't stop there, doing that will also put her up on that same high that you are on.

increase both of your values up at the same time

I want you to realize that you have the power to build any women up, making them better just by you being in their presence or even able to communicate some with you. She can feel more sexy, more intelligent, be more dedicated, have a better life.

Really women live sad lives, they walk around with their high heels, with their XOs bag, reading Cosmo or seventeen, watching reruns of Sex and the City,waiting for life to turn around. we have have the power to bring the excitement back, the love back, the pleasure back, really making them love life. in your presence she can be a 9.5 and guess what? when you build her up to a 9.5 what do you think you are, in her eyes? yea thats right a 10! when you can give a woman a life she enjoys in her eyes your king You make her into a 9.5. Who is that dependent on? YOU! She feels the better life that you can and do give her, you make her stronger, wiser, sexier, Without you, she can't have that. What does that do for your value?


of course just cause you give a girl a compliment doesn't mean you can just say anything thing and not supplicate. there is a subtle art that can be learned (thats what this site is for right )


first to truly come from this "high place" you have to believe you are high I mean not just think it but feel it, you have to smell of it, I mean your b-o has to be "high" lol how does that sound right? your b-o being high.... when I say high I mean high status. you have to come from a high status place of authority

next giving up your desire to have results and just enjoy the process. Do and say what you feel and not give a skinny dog about what happens. If any given compliment whatever gets negative results, you kick that "dirt" off ya shoulder, because you did the process as best as you could. You improve the process later, as you can, but in the moment, you live it and love it.

like I said above there are going to be times when a woman reacts rudely to what you have to say? what do you do? in that situation tell her that you was just being friendly tell her that you really think she is cute but her attitude is wack, and move on simple right? think about it if your high status then why deal with some who is playing games, being stuck up ect ect when you have a line of women wanting to use you in their dirtiest freakiest fantasies. be a man!

this is very different from what you are used to. assuming everything is the basis of the method or style. assuming that you have the power to say or do what ever it is that you want to. giving your self the permission to be free and get what you want out of life. you have to really believe that you deserve all the goals and dreams that you want/have

until next time

[indefatigable]

you're in high school, right?

[Halffull]

Yes sir... raise every bodies value to YOUR level.

I think we're coming from similar places... would love to connect with you further.

[pterodactyl]

Wow.. so much wrong with this I don't even know how to respond, but this:

"Really women live sad lives, they walk around with their high heels, with their XOs bag, reading Cosmo or seventeen, watching reruns of Sex and the City,waiting for life to turn around. we have have the power to bring the excitement back, the love back, the pleasure back, really making them love life."

really made me laugh. Thanks for reminding me what a sad life I have, and how badly I, a poor pathetic sad woman, need men to reach down from their high places to generously build me up and breathe the love of life back into my decaying corpse. Or, if I should not be worthy of such attentions, castigate me if my attitude is perceived as "wack".

If this is what you think women's lives are like, why would you, being so high and mighty, want to spend any time with these sad and pathetic creatures? Why not assemble vast and mighty armies with your fellow Spartans, invade remote continents, destroy your enemies and demand all citizens bow before you to get high from your elite BO? Your talents and efforts are clearly wasted in the feeble pursuit of these lowly peasant women. You should be reading Maxim and GQ from the white marble throne of your lofty cloud tower.

Finally, in all seriousness, why would anyone want to be 'higher' than the person one is attempting to date? Chances are if someone is out of your league no manner of BS is going to help you catch up. A redneck in a trucker hat is not going to pick up a Boston socialite no matter how much he struts around like a rooster, telling her she got a purty mouth and ugly shoes.

LOL.

[JimOfferman]

Originally Posted by Jr Billionaire

Really women live sad lives, they walk around with their high heels, with their XOs bag, reading Cosmo or seventeen, watching reruns of Sex and the City,waiting for life to turn around.

LOL! ROFL! Whahaha! You're real darned funny, you know that!

Oh, wait, you were being serious?

Really?

[Jr Billionaire]

Originally Posted by indefatigable

you're in high school, right?

no I been out of high school since 06

why do you ask?


-JB

[Jr Billionaire]

Wow.. so much wrong with this I don't even know how to respond, but this:

"Really women live sad lives, they walk around with their high heels, with their XOs bag, reading Cosmo or seventeen, watching reruns of Sex and the City,waiting for life to turn around. we have have the power to bring the excitement back, the love back, the pleasure back, really making them love life."

really made me laugh. Thanks for reminding me what a sad life I have, and how badly I, a poor pathetic sad woman, need men to reach down from their high places to generously build me up and breathe the love of life back into my decaying corpse. Or, if I should not be worthy of such attentions, castigate me if my attitude is perceived as "wack".

If this is what you think women's lives are like, why would you, being so high and mighty, want to spend any time with these sad and pathetic creatures? Why not assemble vast and mighty armies with your fellow Spartans, invade remote continents, destroy your enemies and demand all citizens bow before you to get high from your elite BO? Your talents and efforts are clearly wasted in the feeble pursuit of these lowly peasant women. You should be reading Maxim and GQ from the white marble throne of your lofty cloud tower.

Finally, in all seriousness, why would anyone want to be 'higher' than the person one is attempting to date? Chances are if someone is out of your league no manner of BS is going to help you catch up. A redneck in a trucker hat is not going to pick up a Boston socialite no matter how much he struts around like a rooster, telling her she got a purty mouth and ugly shoes.

LOL.

you missed the point of my post...


number 1 this was made from a guys view cause well I am a guy, however building up someone's life is and should be taken up by both genders. stop living in a its all about me world and start focusing on building others up.

number 2 I am not talking about pick up, I am talking about a different way way of life. living your life to bring smiles to other peoples faces will add value to anyone's life doesn't matter if you always get the girl or get the guy its the fact that you took the time out of your day to make someone else day become great.

What I mean by higher value is that confidence that few peole have these days... lets say you miss are a 7 on the rate a women scale. you see a young man sitting down having a bad day, you don't know what it is, but you can tell he life is sucking right now, so you go over to him and say" wow I like those shoes do they have them in women sizes" of course he will look stunned at first but if you continue to add value to his taste in shoes or his cloths and make him feel better about his crappy day, how do you think he will view you? as a 7 or as a special 10?

I love have talks like this, I don't want you to misunderstand what I meant about my post above your not being higher up on the food chain, you are being the best person you can be, in your own eyes you are a 15 out of 10

-jb