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Liza Red · 10-24-2008, 09:10 AM

When people meet their loved ones. How do they know they have met "The One". Like when I ask my parents on how they met, they always say "You will know when the time comes" or "Yep, you just know". I also know other people that when they see their partner they think immediately "I'm gonna marry him/her." even though they haven't talked to each other yet!

Do you get any bizarre/funny feelings when you meet them? Is it very unexpected? Or does no one know....

I will turn 23 very soon. It feels like forever. Arrrgh.

Hopefully married/engaged usernames can help me out here.

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striving4peace · 10-24-2008, 09:26 AM

ok, i'm single as of now, and not everybody 'just knows'. it depends on how closely they are tuned to thier instincts and feelings.

evevera · 10-24-2008, 10:24 AM

Hmm, you know when you can picture living the rest of your life with that person and not anyone else.

I don't understand how you could know just by looking at someone though. You would need to get to know them first!

ns123 · 10-24-2008, 06:04 PM

I didn't know at first sight. I just had a great time with him. And when we decided to be together (after a long time) I just knew.

Some people don't believe in soul mates, that there is just ONE person out there for you.

But I do know this, I've found the person for me. There may be some one else out there for me, many some ones, but I'm gonna stick with this one. How do I know? sorry, but my answer is, I just know. When it happens, you just do.

And hey, if it hasn't happened with that person for you yet, it may happen later! Open yourself up to just having fun, exploring, discovering. And one day, you'll discover the experience of love you were looking for, when you weren't even looking!

The best things that ever happened to me, happened in such a way that I never even imagined was possible to exist. And mostly, almost completely by accident.

JMan · 10-24-2008, 06:16 PM

You know when you choose to love them. Every day. For the rest of your lives. No matter what. And they do the same.

ns123 · 10-24-2008, 07:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMan

You know when you choose to love them. Every day. For the rest of your lives. No matter what. And they do the same.

JMan, this is beautiful. Thank you.

10-24-2008, 09:10 AM	#1 (permalink)
Liza Red Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 34	How do you know? When people meet their loved ones. How do they know they have met "The One". Like when I ask my parents on how they met, they always say "You will know when the time comes" or "Yep, you just know". I also know other people that when they see their partner they think immediately "I'm gonna marry him/her." even though they haven't talked to each other yet! Do you get any bizarre/funny feelings when you meet them? Is it very unexpected? Or does no one know.... I will turn 23 very soon. It feels like forever. Arrrgh. Hopefully married/engaged usernames can help me out here. .

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10-24-2008, 09:26 AM	#2 (permalink)
striving4peace Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 204	ok, i'm single as of now, and not everybody 'just knows'. it depends on how closely they are tuned to thier instincts and feelings.

10-24-2008, 10:24 AM	#3 (permalink)
evevera Member Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 41	Hmm, you know when you can picture living the rest of your life with that person and not anyone else. I don't understand how you could know just by looking at someone though. You would need to get to know them first!

10-24-2008, 06:04 PM	#4 (permalink)
ns123 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Houston, TX Posts: 658	I didn't know at first sight. I just had a great time with him. And when we decided to be together (after a long time) I just knew. Some people don't believe in soul mates, that there is just ONE person out there for you. But I do know this, I've found the person for me. There may be some one else out there for me, many some ones, but I'm gonna stick with this one. How do I know? sorry, but my answer is, I just know. When it happens, you just do. And hey, if it hasn't happened with that person for you yet, it may happen later! Open yourself up to just having fun, exploring, discovering. And one day, you'll discover the experience of love you were looking for, when you weren't even looking! The best things that ever happened to me, happened in such a way that I never even imagined was possible to exist. And mostly, almost completely by accident.

10-24-2008, 06:16 PM	#5 (permalink)
JMan Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 342	You know when you choose to love them. Every day. For the rest of your lives. No matter what. And they do the same.

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