On the basics of attraction

[Jr Billionaire]

on conversation

many of us has asked the question "what do we say?", "what do we talk about?" I myself has asked this very question. my experiences have taught me that the best conversation comes from what your interested in. do you like basketball? are you into poetry readings? do you like having good sex? you will quickly realize that this is your movie, your adventure, and the best things in life or not from others but stem from your inner being.

conversation is no different. find out if she is interested in the things that you are. you like basketball, walks on the beach, kissing dogs on the mouth (ewww) whatever it is no matter how gross if its what you want then ask them if they like it to. when you do this a very subtle yet very dynamic change happens you are no longer seen as someone who just wants to ****, but who really knows what he wants not only with women but in life as well. you see when you "interview" the women you meet it implies that you have choices and that you are looking for the best choice possible.

after reading the above, I want you to get out a piece of paper and write all the things that you want. first on what you want as far as money is concerned. next I want you to write on what what type of relationship you want, and the last thing i want you to write is what qualities do you want in a woman I mean really make your dream women.

an analogy...


lets say you are shopping for a toaster oven, but you know very little about toaster ovens so its hard to really make a good choice on which one you one. so you ask a salesmen "sir which one is better" now which one do you think Mr. commission will try to sell you on? the biggest over priced toaster oven they have! thats a bad thing.

Now what if you actually took the time to know what you want out of a toaster oven what size you wanted it to be, how much you are willing to pay for this oven. Don't you think thats a better way?

same applies to conversation, know what you want and don't be afraid to ask if they have it YOUR happiness is worth it.











on image

what do you want to project? do you know what you project? we as people can not hind or true feelings our inner state always bleeds through to our actions. think about it have you ever heard someone say you were your emotions on your face? well guess what its not just your face, its the way you walk, talk, how you hold your hands when you sit, what you wear ect ect body language is a powerful thing! its very important to know what your projecting to the outward world at all times. so if you think your ugly, or not good enough or all that jazz guess what, that is being shown to everybody that you come into contact with! now that does go both ways if your super confident, classy, cool, person you will project that to the world.

whats the whole purpose of all that info? simple if you know what type of woman you want you will project that, and the only women that will be drawn to you are the ones that fit with what you want. so let me ask another question, what do you want to project to the world? and how does one going about changing what they project? i'll show you what I did:

the people in my age group have a trendy thing going were they like to were baggy jeans with long drawn xxx large t-shirts. now there is nothing wrong with this style but how is a man going to project what he wants to if he looks like every body else? before I figured it out I wore the same cloths as everybody else the baggy cloths. now that attracts many types (mostly the young girls who grew up in the hip hop era) but it doesn't bring the women that I want... I want a woman with style, class, educated, who knows what she wants ect ect those women see the baggy cloths and walk off thinking " he is just like every one else" like it or not its a tough,harsh world and you are what you wear. once I learned this hard truth I checked to see what I was projecting and this is what I came up with:

not only did I look like every one else I came off looking like a thug (which in by no way means I am)
I was generic (no style or substance)
I looked poor

like i said though this did draw a number of women to me, just not the ones that I want. here is what I want to project:

classy
well mannered
successful
confident

so the first thing I did was take pride in myself and changed the way I dressed no more baggy jeans

"I'am thirty plus crisp pair of jeans brothers button up" - jay z

I am no were near thirty plus hell not even thirty, but I took that line to heart and started to wear dress shirts with dress pants and nice shoes. I always had the attitude of some one with all the above traits but people judge on appearance first thats a fact. so when I changed the way I dressed the women who found themselves attracted to me were of the kind in which I wanted...

check what your projecting, is it what you really want? and if not what can you do to change it?






On mental state

here are a couple of things I do to help my mental state.

in the mornings I say my affirmations this is a very important step for me in the mornings as I affirm what I want. like just say I want girls to see me as a sexual being then I would say "I feel women see me as sexual being there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me".

its very important to get specific when not only saying what you want but also saying what the reaction is when you get what you want "there for they can't help but talk to me when they see me" thats the reaction to women seeing me as a sexual being. get specific!!

next what I do is at night I visualize everything I want in my life from money, to fame, to women everything. and I see myself having these things in my life, and how I would behave as if I had these things in my life. most of the time its right before I go to sleep but sometimes if I have time to myself I will reflect on it always visualizing. eye on the prize!!!


-JB