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Old 09-02-2008, 02:04 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Hi everyone! I'm new!

My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago and I ordered George Karanastasis e-book a week into it after reading Marius Panzarella's book "Get your Ex Back". A week after the break up she calls me worried that I was being vengeful (I was doing No Contact (NC)) and at the end of the conversation she asked if I needed space and I said, "no I am fine" wishing I would of told her yes. Instead, I continued NC and yesterday (2 weeks after breakup) she emails me talking about what she has been doing and she ended it with this:

"There is so much I want to talk about but not sure it will do either of us any good right now. are you having as much trouble just being my friend as I am after what we had?
Aubree"

We live 1hour 15min apart. Should I email her back and tell her I need space (or both of us) or not respond and "wait" for her call? If I email what could I say? (The book says wait for her call but does not mention email.)
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Old 09-02-2008, 12:21 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I think you should think more about the underlying problem that caused your ex to break up with you in the first place.

Maybe you could increase the chancing of getting her back by doing a little power play. On the other hand focusing on the deep issues might be more benefitial in the long term.
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Grant yourself some time and space... to get some good perspective of the relationship.
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