Advice in being patient for my desire

[melonstar]

Hello all
I am new to this forum but have posted a few replies today, hope people like what I am saying here!
Well I wanted a bit of support really rather than advice. I have had a series of relationship disasters over the years (I'm 32), including breaking off an engagement 3 months before the wedding, and have been single since the end of January. I feel everything has come together recently and I have learned so much being on my own, including learning to love myself just as I am (no mean feat!). I would say I am the happiest I have ever been, and I am busily creating my perfect home to match my vision. A couple of weeks ago I met a man whom I am sure is my soul mate. He has very similar beliefs to me about the universe and the nature of humanity (we spent two hours together, how is that for openers) but then he didn't call for two weeks. I eventually sent him a very honest yet kind message asking what was going on and he responded telling me he is getting over a very difficult marriage and isn't ready to start a relationship yet. This is all fine, and seems to be synchronised with my own personal timetable for transformation in many ways, and has filled my heart with a huge amount of empathy and patience, but still I am beginning to worry that I am thinking about him too much, and that I will wear down my energies potentially for nothing. I am getting better at trusting in the universe that my happiness will be fulfilled, whichever way this goes, yet there is a part of me which resoultely believes he will be with me someday, and that we will experience a deep soul love, the likes of which we have never known before. A week ago I was compelled to give him a CD of music to soothe his soul, and I believe this was the right thing to do, but he has not yet acknowledged this. I have just driven past his flat (he was moving, so I don't know id he is still there) and the wierdest thing happened - I have a pretty rare car which is no longer in production and I only know of one other of this type near me, yet today a car of the exact same colour, model and even trim level was parked outside. I have NEVER seen one the same as mine, not even on the internet when I was searching to buy it. I wondered if I should take this as a powerful synchronicity, and if so, what people think it might mean? Has my intention and belief in the future of a relationship with this man been received?
Answers on a postcard please - apologies for the length of this post!
Thanks
melon

[Mr_A]

I eventually sent him a very honest yet kind message asking what was going on and he responded telling me he is getting over a very difficult marriage and isn't ready to start a relationship yet

His indicated to you his not looking for a relationship. You are looking for a relationship and I believe you have even expressed this to him. You’re both not aligned in what you want.

He's probably looking for something else in his life right now. Maybe he needs to do some growing before anything happens, maybe you need to do some growing of your own before anything happens, you need to also consider the possibility that maybe its just not meant to be.
My advice would be don’t get all entangled over this one man, just keep an open mind of both possibilities and keep your life moving.