Fell in love on a random gathering

[Ceros]

Weirdest thing happened.

I went to this University social gathering for the first time ever, and met a girl. We haven't talked that much, but a few days later I felt that I might be developing feelings for her.

Except for a little complication. That was the last social gathering this term. And she's not going to be at Uni next term as she just graduated.

Combining that with the fact that I hardly know anything about her - I can't really see a way for me to meet her again.

Considering that my preferred course of action would be to ask her on a date - What can I do?

[Stu]

find her on facebook? or ask a friend who might know her?

If you want to see her again badly enough it shouldn't be hard.

[Spartan]

You haven't fallen in love, you've met an attractive girl and feel like there was a connection, that's all.

I wouldn't waste anymore thought energy on her, she might already have a boyfriend for all you know, and like you said you don't even know each other.

If you let yourself, in 2 weeks time you will have already forgotten about her. There are plenty more fish in the sea as they say.

[fitx3]

Do not waste anymore time, if you have a way of contacting her, do it! If you let her slip away, you'll never know if she was the one. Start checking the phone directories!!!

*I'm sure you know it's not really love but a quick hitting infatuation. Good luck.

[Goldhart23]

This is almost the same way I met my current love of 5 years and it was worth it. If your university has an alumni list/forum/way to contact each other, like mine does, you should be able to find an email for her that way. The email addy itself will not be visible, but you could click a link to get a message to her. Anyway, that's sort of how I hooked up with my sweetie--the facilitator of the group gathering had his email and passed mine along with a message to him. My message was just something like "I have a followup question for you." He didn't expect it was to ask him out, but to my surprise, he was available! I began by inviting him to a local music venue. We've been together ever since (not without problems, but together nonetheless).

Good luck to you! Let us know how you "make out," LOL, JK!
--Barb

[Fullcrum]

Try whatever means to meet her you want, but realize that there are probably other women out there, who are more attractive, more of what you want, and easier to meet.