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| You definately dont need money, physicality, or intellect to get girls. And girls generally would prefer a guy who can satisfy her emotionally, including sexually. But, attraction is a different game. Why does a peacock have such large feathers? And why does the peacock with the largest feather prevail more often in mating? Having money, physicality and intellect means your likelihood to support offspring and the girl is high. A girls job, with limited opportunities to conceive, is to find the most suitable partner. A guys job is to find as many partners.
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| You are forgetting one important thing; evolution has moved on since the stone age! And a human being is under no obligation to undertake any role or 'job' assigned to their gender (by use of invalid evolutionist arguments). Human beings have sufficient rational faculties to choose otherwise. Last edited by Spartan : 06-22-2008 at 12:56 AM. |
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| No. For my part I was just answering Rob's question. What's the big deal?
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| That's for sure. It's like vitality -- I don't need my man to be perfectly healthy and fit, but I do prefer to be with a man who takes 100% responsibility for his own health, fitness, vitality and well-being. Same with money. Now that I think about it, that is wayyy more important than money. |
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I wouldn't call it scrutiny either, isn't it just natural to be curious of these things? You could always start a new thread on what qualities men like the most in women or you could just pose you question here too. just my 0.02 cents Last edited by robc : 06-23-2008 at 10:11 PM. |
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| I think Spartan should lighten up. Honestly, it's all just for fun. Scrutiny is too much of a serious word, I don't think it's all about that. I think it's kind of fun to express what we find attractive. Robc, I'd like to know what you find attractive in a woman. Just curious. |
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I think it's sometimes best to just let things be, instead of analyzing them to death. |
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What I find attractive in a woman are qualities that I admire in myself. E.g. Good looks, good health, warm/cheeky smile, intelligence, kindness, openness, honesty, directness, politeness. I also prefer girls who are sexually responsive and explorative. And I think a girl who enjoys exercising is especially attractive, and also a girl who enjoys eating meat! Last edited by Spartan : 06-24-2008 at 12:50 AM. |
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1. Physical attraction is a must, you don't have to be anjolie jolie or jessica beil/alba (mind you if you are, "how you doin?") but I must be physically attracted to a woman, it's important to me. But my definition of physical attraction will be different from others I'm sure, I tend to like curvy/voluptuous women whereas I'm sure there are alot of guys that prefer thinner & athletic women... no worries, it's all good! 2. Intelligence is a must, a good conversationalist, someone who has a clue, beauty without brains is very unattractive! 3. A great sense of humor, someone who will laugh at my jokes and has a few of her own 4. Honest, loyal, compassionate, romantic, great eyes & a great smile - those are all at the top of the list too 5. Someone who takes care of their appearance, is clean, looks current (you don't have to be a fashion model), I love long hair on a woman. I used to be into brunettes but blondes & redheads can be fun too 6. I'm not into angry people who like to yell & swear & fight all the time, had that for a long time, don't want it anymore (I guess you don't tend to discover these traits until you're a little further into a relationship). You can have an opinion and stand by it too but just don't run over everyone else including me to express it 7. Healthy sexuality is a must, I like it, my partner would have to like it too 8. Someone who doesn't mind going out and having fun at restaurants, outdoor patios, movies, activity dates, walking, going out for coffee or just staying in at home So much more I could say about this, how does it sound thus far? |
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To answer your questions, uhm.....YEAH and YEAH! I do have to add after stating the above that unfortunately some women do have sexual issues. Take my best girlfriend for example, she could care less about ever having sex. She just doesn't care for it which is a really sad situation for her husband. Last edited by fitx3 : 06-24-2008 at 09:49 PM. |
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| Aha ha ha ha.....don't try to put that on me Spartan!!! I didn't even catch that! That is too funny. There is no way that I rewrote your word, I just clicked on the quote button. You went back and changed that you funny, funny guy! Okay...there is no edit on your post so now I'm really confused! How did that word get changed? Last edited by fitx3 : 06-25-2008 at 01:27 AM. |

