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Old 05-27-2008, 10:32 PM
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About a year ago (I think) I opened a thread here because at the time I was very frustrated with my dad over giving me a "son, you still don't have a girlfriend and that has me worried"-talk. I was very angry with him for bringing attention to what is, admittedly, (still) missing from my life.

We had another one of those talks today, but the vibe was completely different this time around. I was very relaxed and easy going like: thanks for reminding me about that, dad! Yes, finding a partner is important but I also working very hard on creating the live I love and that's even more important to me.

But it's not just this thing with my dad that's better now. I feel much more empowered overall now compared to when I first joined the forum. For the first time in my life I have a crystal clear idea of where I am going - I may not yet know all the bends in the road, but I know my destination. It's awesome! Yay!
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Old 05-28-2008, 01:43 AM
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Thats a great feeling.. Congrats!!! You should be very proud of yourself. Keep up the good work. G
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That is nice to hear. Thanks for sharing it.
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That's awesome Jim. I know exactly what you mean. Big congratulations!

Even in the short time I have known you here your love of life and confidence has shone through more and more.
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Thanks!
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That is wonderful that you feel so much more confident in your ability to decide what is right for you.

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Next time just say "Thanks for pointing that out, Captain Obvious".
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Next time just say "Thanks for pointing that out, Captain Obvious".
LOL! Good one.
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Awwww yeah!
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What a great attitude!

I could learn a lot from you.
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I noticed that, Jim. Awesome. I'm so happy for you *hug*
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congratulations... nothing better than a clear vision.

stay on the path!
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But it's not just this thing with my dad that's better now. I feel much more empowered overall now compared to when I first joined the forum. For the first time in my life I have a crystal clear idea of where I am going - I may not yet know all the bends in the road, but I know my destination. It's awesome! Yay!

Congrats Jim . It sure is exciting isn't it to see how much you've progressed in one year!
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