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Old 05-20-2008, 09:24 PM
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Hi, I just wanted to ask an advice how I could give emotional support to my step father. He is going through a very tough time dealing with problems in his business and, staying with my family last weekend, I realized that his stress is not only taking a toll on his emotional balance, but on the entire family. I understand that he has to go through whatever he has to go through, and I love him just fine the way he is, but I also know how important emotional support is when one is going through difficult time. I am also concerned about intruding in his personal life. I don't want to make it uncomfortable, but I want to let him know that I care and that I am there for him. What do people do?

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Have you actually asked him if there is anything you can do to support him or the rest of the family. It varies for different people / situations but talking about it is a good starting point

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You know, I haven't. I sent him an email, saying that it's going to be okay and for him to hang on, but I never actually asked him if I could do anything for him. Thanks for the pointer.
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It's often the best way to ask people what we can do directly as often they come up with things that we don't even consider.

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You know, I haven't. I sent him an email, saying that it's going to be okay and for him to hang on, but I never actually asked him if I could do anything for him. Thanks for the pointer.
one of the Good way to give emotional support is to convince the person that no matter what you would always be on their side
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one of the Good way to give emotional support is to convince the person that no matter what you would always be on their side
Thanks for the response. It does make so much sense.
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