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Old 05-20-2008, 02:58 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Last year I made a post about a girl I was interested in, but she did not feel the same way. We ended up staying friends, even today. I had thought I was past those feelings for her, but not too long ago we began to hang out again, if only breifly in school. I have started to like her again.

We began to watch movies together at her house, and I have become if nothing else, closer with her. I've learned a lot more about her, and have begun to truely see why I was attracted to her: she is just like me. From our time outside of school, I can't decide if she has changed her mind about me or not. I am not the most social person, and don't hang out with more than a few friends, and can't tell if she is sending me hints, or just being friends.

I am stuck for what to do. If I tell her about how I feel, again, it may break the even better friendship we have if I am wrong, but if I can't see myself missing out on a relationship with her.

What is it about people like her that make it so hard to just be friends? I guess I'm just looking for some feedback.

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Old 05-20-2008, 02:42 PM   #2 (permalink)
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Hi man,

My approach would be to just let her know what you feel. Its hard to run away from what you really feel. I understand there is a risk losing her but the world will keep turning. You never know until you try. You might end up with a great girl Maybe she is the kind of girl who doesnt make a move. The choice is yours, this or that.
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