How to attract men or women

[Botticelli]

I wanted to share some articles I wrote on how to attract the opposite sex. The first one is How to Attract Men – Guide for Women. Here's the other one How to Attract Women - Guide for Men. I think people will find some interesting and useful concepts here. Perhaps not everything applies to you, but I recommend picking out what might work and using it. I think you'll find it really helps. Thanks for taking a look.

[carenkh]

Ah - from the title of the post, I thought it was going to be how to attract either, if you're bisexual!

[frajilthunder]

Originally Posted by carenkh

Ah - from the title of the post, I thought it was going to be how to attract either, if you're bisexual!

Hey, a Charlottian! I was in Charlotte this weekend for Radiohead (awesome show!) but I live in Morganton, NC about 60 mi NW of you.

[Gozunn]

Originally Posted by Botticelli

I wanted to share some articles I wrote on how to attract the opposite sex. The first one is How to Attract Men – Guide for Women. Here's the other one How to Attract Women - Guide for Men. I think people will find some interesting and useful concepts here. Perhaps not everything applies to you, but I recommend picking out what might work and using it. I think you'll find it really helps. Thanks for taking a look.

I think its good basic advice. Especially since you focused on the fact that men use their eyes alot while women focus more on personality.

[Fullcrum]

Hey, appreciate the effort put into these articles. At first glance of the attracting women, I thought, "Oh look, another bunch of socially conditioned thought telling me to 'look my best' and 'get fit' and 'be an animal lover'", but upon further reading, you put them into proper context. Nice job on that - no, working out does not make you more sexually appealing unless you have nothing else going for you, but it sure does help with sex or just generally doing things. That's an awesome context, not "Women like flat abs, so get them!" Hahaha.

The women one was nice, too, I'd def. be attracted to that. Looks matter for us men, but so does their "energy" and if they look happy or not.

[Botticelli]

Thanks a lot for the encouraging words everyone!

[PianoManGidley]

No articles on how to attract the same sex? *pouts* :-P

[songwriter]

Giving them what they want, thought maybe that's not what you want to give, but that's a different story.

[JimOfferman]

Originally Posted by songwriter

Giving them what they want

No, give them what you want to give them. If they don't like what you are giving, you're giving it to the wrong person.

[Apple Eye]

This part of the article bothered me:

"Besides, let’s face it, most men have somewhere in the back of their minds this idea that their woman is going to have a certain amount of responsibility for cleaning, laundry, yard work, taking care of the kids, and other household chores, so they’re going to expect a woman who can at least hold her own domestically and still have some energy for sex at the end of the day."

It seems a little bit sexist to me.

Besides, if you ask most parents, no matter how physically fit you are, raising young children is mentally and physically exhausting, for both parties. I know this doesn't really have much to do with singles in the dating game, but since you mentioned it in the article, I thought I'd point that out.

[songwriter]

Originally Posted by JimOfferman

No, give them what you want to give them. If they don't like what you are giving, you're giving it to the wrong person.

well, that would be how to attract a certain kind of man or woman, but not in general. You know, for a mouse you need cheese...etc. IF the only goal is to "attract", guess what he/she wants and give it. I'm not into it, of course.