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04-30-2008, 09:27 PM
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Hi, I am new to this website and forum. I have a question and I hope someone can help me. I currently am attracted to a certain guy. In the visualization process, do I focus on the guy? or his attributes, or do I focus on the qualities I like about him so that I can attract my ideal mate? This has plagued me for a while and i just want to be able to perfect the process. Thanks |
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05-01-2008, 01:26 AM
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|  From an Intention Manifestation point of view... Quote:
Place your order with the universe in a clear voice (or thought, technically the universe doesn't need to hear you say it vocally) and then finish it off with "make it so" (or something solidifying the request, that it will actually happen). Good Luck!!! (p.s. you could always take the direct route and tell the guy you like him, introduce yourself and ask him out on a date, or for some coffee, or maybe a drink at a nightclub or out for some lunch, etc. You get the idea - sometimes and maybe/probably/actually all the time if I read Steve Pavlina correctly, the direct route is the quickest way to getting what you want. Funny thing is very few people ever take the direct route.)  | |
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05-01-2008, 12:35 PM
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I am under the impression that it is best to not focus on any one person because you may miss the right opportunity as it goes by. I am trying to not obsess over one woman in particular any more and focus on the characteristics that I desire. WHile at the same time improving my own self. G
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05-02-2008, 07:58 AM
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focus on the relationship you would like to have, I think you can visualize you be with this guy, but eventually it will manifest the feelings you have toward the situation, and maybe at the end you'll have this certain guy!
__________________ "It is perfectly right that you should desire to be rich, if you are a normal man or woman you cannot help doing so." Wallace D Wattles The SGR is Live and Kicking. |
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