How to be a GUYS MAGNET?

[Jamie]

Originally Posted by wolfgang

If there's a universal trait that is attractive - it's someone that knows themselves and likes who they are. It doesn't matter as much what you are as long as you know what it is. It's a confidence, maybe - but not even that because if you know that you aren't confident and are ok with that - that is attractive too. People that know themselves are easy to understand and "get". They are naturally humorous and humorous with themselves. They don't make excuses for being how they are or think they need to be drastically different, yet they know there are things to learn about themselves too.

At least that's what I find attractive. Someone that knows themselves.

Self-acceptance? In a world where we all feel so much need to be other than just as we are. Self knowing and self acceptance are perhaps more attractive than confidence?

[garentee]

If you accept your self you generally have a confidence that you know who you are and what you want... Even if you are not all that confident or hold yourself in high self esteem. G

[Stephen]

Originally Posted by Marco Polo

Dress slutty and the guys will be all over you.

No, I'm only joking... or am I?

Puke......


One major turn off for me is seeing crop tops, tattoos and hipster jeans, especially a menage a trois of all items.

Is it just me or should a females pubic bone be out of bound to the general public?


You cant beat a nice, normal weight, conservatively dressed lady.

(With a flowery patterned summer dress; that does it for me every time, lol)

[GoingPrimal]

Originally Posted by Stephen

Puke......


One major turn off for me is seeing crop tops, tattoos and hipster jeans, especially a menage a trois of all items.

Is it just me or should a females pubic bone be out of bound to the general public?


You cant beat a nice, normal weight, conservatively dressed lady.

(With a flowery patterned summer dress; that does it for me every time, lol)

Love me some summer dresses... Love me some pubic bones...

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Stephen

(With a flowery patterned summer dress; that does it for me every time, lol)

Yay! That's what I'm wearing today!

You guys mean hip bones, don't you? Even the most low-cut jeans don't usually show the pubic bone

[Stephen]

Originally Posted by Angela

You guys mean hip bones, don't you? Even the most low-cut jeans don't usually show the pubic bone

No. I mean the pubic bone! lol You know where the growth is??? lol

I kidd you not. Walk around some Uk cities, and you will see what I mean

[Tuumble]

Originally Posted by Stephen

No. I mean the pubic bone! lol You know where the growth is??? lol

I kidd you not. Walk around some Uk cities, and you will see what I mean

I'm obviously living in the wrong place!

[Stephen]

No mate, its not all its cracked up to be.

I have nearly puked a few times.(joking)

I have turned away many a time in disgust (not joking)

[Plato]

I welcome people wearing less clothes. God I can't wait for the middle of summer... exams over... parties... everybody happy... tanned skin...the outdoor swimming pool on campus....summer love. Heaven. I live in a student city so most of the girls are hot and I'm walking over to chat before I know what I'm gonna say. Or perhaps just drinking in the femine essence. mmmmm. I'm in the kind of mood where I could even listen to S Club 7 without cringing.

I think I know the type you are talking about Stephen and I suppose most people call them chavs... it's a shame because I bet lots of them are great people but I'll probably never know...

[Silent Lucidity]

Take a dance class. Learn to be comfortable moving around in your body... I went from shy and a little bit clumsy to a total guy-magnet through dancing. Any kind of dance, though latin is great, and can be sexy. Ballroom is good for posture. Swing dance is good too... also it gets you out meeting people gets you in shape, and you can get comfortable dancing with and talking to different guys. You might even meet someone! There are always university dance clubs around. The way you carry yourself that says confidence and sensuality, really pay attention to everything in the moment when you are walking around... this will naturally help you to project that feeling!

[rowebil]

Just be yourself.
There is SOMEONE who is looking for a type of girl like you. I promise.
My 8th grade English teacher is huge. She has a boyfriend.
I'm not gay or anything, but he is good looking, a nice shape, built, muscle and nice. He is with a huge girl.
Maybe he doesn't care about the looks. I don't; no one should.

Someone might be VERY pretty, but then mean on the inside.

Don't go on a risky diet. It won't help you or anyone around you.
Be yourself.

Also, don't rush into finding someone. You got your whole life to find someone.
I don't know your age, but im expecting your young since your in college. But, maybe near your age, in the 20's, people are actually finding who themselves are. What kind of people they want to be with. That is what happens to most relationships today. Divorces. They got married at a younger age, then changed their personality, then they don't like each other. They have different tastes.
But, again, some young relationships DO work, and fall into marriage.
I say, try to find someone that you really like, then just go on from there.
You appearance should not matter to ANYONE.
Don't hesitate to message me. I'll talk anytime..


I hope everything goes well..

Billy Rowe

-Peer Mediation