Trouble In The Camp

[kookaburra]

I have a gf that seems to put blame on to me on a regular basis even if it is something i havent done EG: left the wardrobe light on didnt put the washing basket where it goes get the picture ? she is borderline OCD or even OCD and thats not coming from me thats a pro's opinion,whenever i seem to look like i am not doing what she wants she tends to huff and puff, i never get any rest from work i would like to take a holiday though she tends to spend on impulse on a regular basis so i find it hard to save.
If we are out at the shops and i tell her that we have to watch our money she puts on a turn but not cranky she manipulates a situation so that i give in and that seems to permiate right throughout our whole relationship in all relms.
She is a firm believer in using the word C@#t AND F@#kwit ,Stupid No common sense,grot,walk to slow,negative,lazy theres more but i cant remember them all at this minute. The thing is im the one with a about pieces of paper and a succesfull trade any ideas? Anyone?

[jaamkie]

and you are with her why exactly? sometimes people's attitudes come across as if they just somehow landed in a relationship that they never wanted, with someone they don't even respect or like very much... speaking of taking responsibility for own choices...

[Jamie]

Do you truly believe you deserve no better? What do you think (and feel)?