Getting Ex to Fall in Love with Me again

[tiramisu17]

My ex and I had broken up due to arguements, his love for me had faded. We didn't contact after the broke up for about two months. Recently i found out that he had been on a good term with another girl. I confronted him and this lead to another arguement.

According to the law of attraction, does it mean that if I believe that he will come back to me means he would?

[Joely]

You can't manifest somebody specific falling in love with you, because it might not be right for them. If he decides he wants to come back to you because he wants to be with you, and that's best for both of you, then that'll happen, but it won't if it isn't what's best for both of you - he might not want that to happen.

Why not try intending to find somebody with whom you can share a great relationship? If he's the right person for that, then he'll come zooming straight back to you. Or you might meet somebody new who's much better suited to you.

[Erin Pavlina]

Joely is right. I wrote a blog entry specifically about manifesting someone specific using the LOA that you might gain some insight from:

Can You Use Law of Attraction to Attract a Specific Person Into Your Life?

[Parthon]

Strangely enough, if he was the one you were meant to be with, then you would be with him. If you were meant to break up and get back together later in order to learn something, then that's good too.

What you don't want to do is force the issue. You, as a human being, are immensly powerful, but if you use that power to force a situation, it won't be the situation you want. In fact it will be the exact situation that you broke up with him for.

For you, right now, I can see that you should look for the lesson inside of what's happened, and see what benefit you can take away from the events recently. After that, just relax and take in what life has to offer you right now. Finally, set yourself up to move forward towards the larger aims of your life, those bigger than just being with one particular person. I know you want to give more to the world than just that.