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Old 01-14-2008, 06:46 PM   #31 (permalink)
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Danger Man told me something interesting yesterday.... he is a model and also does photography for other models, and when he's shooting a face that is round or softy or baby-faced, he'll use a black background -- something about the lack of light bouncing onto the edges makes the face look leaner and more defined. Long dark hair and facial hair have the same effect, apparently. I can see how some guys do look better with facial hair because they look more angular and edgy and strong. Unfortunately, a very light-colored beard has the opposite effect. For me, I don't care, as long as it's well-tended and doesn't scratch me too much. I would be sorry to see Danger Man hide his beautiful mug under a bunch of hair, though.

I would just like to issue a plea to men to stop growing beards that look like a brazilian-waxed woman... you know, that thin little strip in the middle of the chin, like Britney Spears' new married boyfriend? eeeeeyuck.
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Old 01-14-2008, 07:00 PM   #32 (permalink)
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Long dark hair and facial hair have the same effect, apparently. I can see how some guys do look better with facial hair because they look more angular and edgy and strong.
That's exactly what happened to my face!

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I would just like to issue a plea to men to stop growing beards that look like a brazilian-waxed woman... you know, that thin little strip in the middle of the chin, like Britney Spears' new married boyfriend? eeeeeyuck.
Lol. I'll pass that on to some of the guys I know who have that: "please shave it off, because there is this nice lady in LA that doesn't like your kind of beard"
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Old 01-14-2008, 07:07 PM   #33 (permalink)
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Jim, thank you so much for doing your part to save me from the risk of encountering that awful sight.
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Jim, thank you so much for doing your part to save me from the risk of encountering that awful sight.
Just stay away from my band's website and you'll be fine!
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Old 01-14-2008, 07:59 PM   #35 (permalink)
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Oh, dear. Just that one guy, right? He would be so cute without the brazilian wax. That must be why you chop off your faces in the main photo, right?

Is that you in the foreground? What a fox!
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Oh, dear. Just that one guy, right? He would be so cute without the brazilian wax.
I think his groupies disagree. But he has a different style every other week or so. He had a mohawk in the previous set of press photos.

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That must be why you chop off your faces in the main photo, right?
I did that with the intention of soliciting reactions from people. So far, it's working out pretty well!

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Yep, that's me! Fox and all
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Old 01-14-2008, 08:23 PM   #37 (permalink)
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Yep, that's me! Fox and all
Wowee! Yumola. Why haven't we heard more about your romantexploitations lately?

and re: Brazilian Boy, each groupie to her own taste, right? Life is a cornucopia of delicious treats to choose from.
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Why haven't we heard more about your romantexploitations lately?
Because there haven't been any. I've been waaaaay to busy with other things.
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Old 01-14-2008, 09:00 PM   #39 (permalink)
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Oh, well. At least you've got me, mooning over you from afar.
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Oh, well. At least you've got me, mooning over you from afar.
And you are not alone in that
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Old 01-14-2008, 09:15 PM   #41 (permalink)
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It's funny how many threads get derailed by the We Love Jim contingency. Sorry, everybody.

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Old 01-14-2008, 09:22 PM   #42 (permalink)
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LOL. I'll try to be less lovable

(and sorry)
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Old 01-14-2008, 09:26 PM   #43 (permalink)
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Well, you've got Nor Cal AND So Cal covered for mooning.

(Ah! Puns! I slay me!)
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LOL. I'll try to be less lovable
Give up, that's a hopeless undertaking

South West Germany's covered too
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I'll moon you! I'll moon you! Oh - wait...

You are quite the cutie, though!
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Old 01-14-2008, 10:49 PM   #46 (permalink)
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Poor jamestl. He starts a thread to complain about women being attracted to men with beards instead of him.....and the threads ends up with with women gawking over a different guy who has facial hair!
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Oh damn, you're right! But Jim's beard is not the reason why I'm so crazy about him, I swear!
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If I'm attracting Women, it's news to me.
I didn't mean romantic attraction, I meant more the LoA kind of attracting them into your life. IMO it does have a sense that all women you find attractive dig men with beards, while you can't possibly have one. Maybe you're so afraid of women that you prefer hiding behind the beards? Cause if they liked your type of guy, you would have to overcome your fear? Dunno, I'm just speculating... but when I notice that all men I attract into my life have one characteristic in common, usually it's insightful to look at this characteristic and ask myself what it means.
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I clicked on this thread thinking it was made by a chick, and that I would miraculously start doing better with women just by growing a beard.

I'm disappointed at this thread to say the least.
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maybe the beard thing is like how guys like woman with long hair(in general or on average)...
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maybe the beard thing is like how guys like woman with long hair(in general or on average)...
Hmmm. I have a beard, but I prefer women with short hair...
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maybe the beard thing is like how guys like woman with long hair(in general or on average)...
Biologically the beard is a secondary sexual characteristic developed upon puberty, like enlarged breasts for women, and just like there have been periods where small breasts were in, there are also times when boyish faces are preferred to that of a man (and of course in addition to general trends there are individual preferences).

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Hmmm. I have a beard, but I prefer women with short hair...
... and I prefer men with long hair Like Emppu Vuorinen for example
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... and I prefer men with long hair Like Emppu Vuorinen for example
Hah, sorry Rose, I'm not growing my hair for you. I'm keeping it shaved
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Hah, seeker5, I won't have my hair cut for you! I'm keeping it long
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Hah, seeker5, I won't have my hair cut for you! I'm keeping it long
I guess we'll just have to love each other for who we are in our inner selves instead of looking at our outer selves. Bummer

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I guess we'll just have to love each other for who we are in our inner selves instead of looking at our outer selves. Bummer
How romantic! What about a blindfolded date?
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You'll really feel for each other!
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I guess that rules out sightseeing..
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I guess that rules out sightseeing..
.....and the movies....
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