Intelligent girls

[Unik]

How to make relationship with an intelligent girl ?

Any special techniques other than the normal methods of PUA.

[justkira]

How to make relationship with an intelligent girl ?

Be more intelligent than she is, don't get manipulated by her.

- speaking from experience.

i think diamants would work too...

[{aspiring_to_clarity}]

I think an intelligent girl would prefer not to be fed some PUA lines, but that may just be a bias I have against the whole idea.

Be intelligent, honest and compassionate. Use your wit. If you are living in such a way that you take responsibility for your life and live it joyfully, you will attract people to you like nothing else.

BTW, I don't like diamonds unless they are certified conflict free and even then there are so many things I would prefer a man give me...like integrity.

[NotesMaeve]

Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}

I think an intelligent girl would prefer not to be fed some PUA lines, but that may just be a bias I have against the whole idea.

Be intelligent, honest and compassionate. Use your wit. If you are living in such a way that you take responsibility for your life and live it joyfully, you will attract people to you like nothing else.

BTW, I don't like diamonds unless they are certified conflict free and even then there are so many things I would prefer a man give me...like integrity.

I owe you one high five.

[Mayo]

Well i don't know what you mean by "intelligent", could be that she has Ph.D but be still dumb as wood in "life matters"..

Hmm... how to make relationship with really INTELLIGENT woman? Well first you must be intelligent, if you are dumb and she fancies you that is ok but after a while you could become just a play toy.. Now if you are intelligent, compassionate, true & witty person i see no reason to "win" her..

The most important thing is that you are true to yourself and her and that you treat her with respect.

[{aspiring_to_clarity}]

Originally Posted by NotesMaeve

I owe you one high five.

Pay up, lady!

[Amandaaa]

keep her on the edge of her seat.
make her smile.
be yourself.

it shouldn't be any different than starting a relationship with any other girl... (except that she might need more mental stimulation).

you need to be at least at her level- or she'll get bored with you.

[JimOfferman]

Same as with all the rest of the girls: just be interested in her as a person, not in her intelligence.

(and don't be a PUA...)

[tefaroko]

Be a nerd, but a cool nerd.

I've also found that more intelligent girls tend to value humor.

I'm juss sayin'.

[Holistic Star]

Be genuinely intelligent yourself: read, learn, seek out new experiences, be enthusiastic about life.

Don't just do that for the woman though - do it for yourself anyway!

[bamfblog]

Originally Posted by Unik

How to make relationship with an intelligent girl ?

Any special techniques other than the normal methods of PUA.

If you're going to use PUA techniques, then make sure you tailor them to the person. Oh, and if you're trying to make a relationship that's going to last more than a couple months, you might want to use the PUA techniques sparingly, and make sure that you are congruent and present yourself that way.

[Jennihul]

I would say, as an intelligent girl, if you have to ask that question, you just don't have the skills.

Jennifer

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Jennihul

I would say, as an intelligent girl, if you have to ask that question, you just don't have the skills.

Jennifer

That is very funny! Reminds me of that old saying, "If you have to ask the price, you can't afford it."

If you want to be in a relationship with an intelligent girl, look for the intelligence in all girls. Be committed to finding intelligence of some kind in every girl you talk to. Be a guy who shines light on intelligence, even when you think it's hard to find. That would be an intelligent thing to do.

If you are able to see the intelligence that is in every girl, you'll have a very big pool of girls to select from who meet that one limited criteria! And then you'll be free to look at other qualities and conditions that would determine right woman for you: chemistry, warmth, values in common, timing.

You can still have a very high standard for yourself about having an intelligent partner, but you won't be locked into the straightjacket of looking at intelligence as your first indicator of who would be the perfect girl for you. You could easily make a mistake doing that, you know; you might meet a brilliant Rhodes Scholar on a day she is woozy because she just got over the flu, or you might think a woman is perfect for you because she can explain Shakespeare's tragedies and has a degree in physics (but she's a republican )!

[WilliamT]

Jenihull is correct. But really if you are indeed attracted to intelligent women, then you must be secure in your sense of self. That alone is a good attractant. After that I am not sure it is any different than with women of average intelligence. Some people you hit it off with, others you don't. Who can really explain the laws of human attraction!?

-Will

[Tasaio]

Originally Posted by Jennihul

I would say, as an intelligent girl, if you have to ask that question, you just don't have the skills.

Jennifer

Then you would be wrong, girl-who-claims-to-be-intelligent. There's nothing wrong with asking for advice.

I bet you've asked for advice on how to date intelligent guys.

That is very funny! Reminds me of that old saying, "If you have to ask the price, you can't afford it."

There have been lots of times I've been in a store, asked the price, and been able to pay. Stuid expression, IMO. (No offense to you personally, Angela.)

If you want to be in a relationship with an intelligent girl, look for the intelligence in all girls. Be committed to finding intelligence of some kind in every girl you talk to. Be a guy who shines light on intelligence, even when you think it's hard to find. That would be an intelligent thing to do

.

But not every girl is intelligent. It's a bigger percentage than most American men think...but it's a smaller percentage than most feminists think.

When I say 'intelligence', I'm talking about a having an IQ that's above average in some way.

Most girls are average--like most men.

You can still have a very high standard for yourself about having an intelligent partner, but you won't be locked into the straightjacket of looking at intelligence as your first indicator of who would be the perfect girl for you. You could easily make a mistake doing that, you know; you might meet a brilliant Rhodes Scholar on a day she is woozy because she just got over the flu, or you might think a woman is perfect for you because she can explain Shakespeare's tragedies and has a degree in physics (but she's a republican )!

lol, I couldn't agree more. I've fallen into this trap with 'intelligent' university girls, myself.

One of the girls I fell for turned out to be Catholic!

[Angela]

Originally Posted by Tasaio

But not every girl is intelligent.

Every girl (and guy) has intelligence of some sort. Every single one. It might take extraordinary intelligence on the part of an observer to be able to detect it, but it is there. You have to have it to see it.

I understand, though, that you are looking for someone of above-average intelligence -- that you want to feel intellectually engaged with and maybe even challenged by your partner. Nothing wrong with that! What I'm saying is: if you are able to expand your own intelligence enough to see intelligence in everyone, you will broaden your own horizons about what kind of person you might find intellectually engaging or challenging.

And if a person has made up his mind about what constitutes "intelligence", and feels supremely confident of whether or not a particular person is intelligent or not, well, I don't think that's an intelligent thing to do. When you judge another person, you only limit yourself.