Sex with only one female?

[botcee]

Now, my understanding is that i should intercourse only with the female that i really like and not go around having it with everyone

Here's the thing - The female that i really like right now..we are only friends and nothing apart from that,,but the relation seems to be building

On the other hand i come across, meet seem to looking for that

Now, i am confused and want your suggestion

I already gave my view point but on the other hand steve always says that everyone should live life with abundance

Would be really nice to hear what you guys think about this

[JimOfferman]

It's entirely up to you! You could choose to follow the doctrine of certain religions and have sex only after marriage and then only to procreate. You could also choose to share the bed with every girl (or guy) who is willing. Heck, you could even decide to never have sex at all, if that feels right to you...

It's your life after all.

[cdn2wheeler]

Abundance can mean different things to different people. In the context of sexual partners, it could mean enjoying the pleasures of lovemaking with many, many people. Or it could mean choosing to stay true to one person and enjoying the abundance that flows (so to speak) from that one person.

Jim's right (as usual): it's your life, so the decision is up to you.

[Angela]

Just one thing: you want to have an abundance of sex, stop calling it intercourse and quit calling us females.

[openeyes]

Originally Posted by Angela

Just one thing: you want to have an abundance of sex, stop calling it intercourse and quit calling us females.

Maybe he's made the enlightened decision to have intercourse with only one woman, but oral sex with many

[botcee]

That's the confusing part - It's my life - what should i do

Now the difficult question is like everything , even this is becoming difficult to choose,,,any suggestions/tips

[NotesMaeve]

Originally Posted by botcee

Now, my understanding is that i should intercourse only with the female that i really like and not go around having it with everyone

Here's the thing - The female that i really like right now..we are only friends and nothing apart from that,,but the relation seems to be building

On the other hand i come across, meet seem to looking for that

Now, i am confused and want your suggestion

I already gave my view point but on the other hand steve always says that everyone should live life with abundance

Would be really nice to hear what you guys think about this

Originally Posted by Angela

Just one thing: you want to have an abundance of sex, stop calling it intercourse and quit calling us females.

THANK YOU! I am not a bonobo!

[seeker5]

Originally Posted by botcee

That's the confusing part - It's my life - what should i do

Now the difficult question is like everything , even this is becoming difficult to choose,,,any suggestions/tips

Whether you choose an abundance of partners, or an abundance of sex with one partner, be honest and upfront with your partner(s). You'll find women who are accepting of you choosing an abundance of partners if you're honest and upfront with them.

[JimOfferman]

Originally Posted by botcee

That's the confusing part - It's my life - what should i do

You could start by seducing someone you fancy and take it from there. Along the way, listen to what your heart and mind are saying. Experience what your limits are.

I've always felt very strongly that one night stands were not for me, still the idea of it had certain appeal. So I pushed myself in that direction, just to find out how far I could go. Turns out that one night flings really are outside of my comfort zone.

You can't really learn that kind of thing just by thinking it through - you have to do it to find out.

[Brutha]

Living with abundance doesn't mean to do every thing you can imagine. There is for example little "abundance" of drugs in Steve's life.
You have to choose how to live your life and accept the responsibilty that goes along with it.

[Rose of Cairo]

and stop calling women "females" or you'll have no sex at all!