help, erin, somebody

[Andwan]

I'm really writting this tread to get advice from anyone out there who can shed light on my situation...I'm having a few social promblems...Now considering the whole SR thing, we're all one, etc etc etc...How do I help myself? Being a strong believer in the "law of attraction" I'm sure I'm attracting all of this negativitly towards me? Should I just simply ignore the promblems that I'm having? By ignoring them, will they go away? Should I just start fighting fire with fire and be mean to thoes who are aggresive to me...I orginally decided that by simply choosing to ignore their exsitence I would be find, but that has left me feeling very grey and a little angry because the promblem hasn't left i.e. I'm just ignoring it...Beisdes, everyone and everything is a projection of Consciouness so I can't ignore them...Is there anyone out there who can help? I'm really frustrated...I've even started seeing a psychiatrists I guess all of this self help stuff is really starting to get next to me...

Erin, one more question...I've been trying to get Steve's version of SR and since you are his "softer" half as was mention in one of his post, have you ever thought about writting a blog on that subject design for your readers...I know that our own ego's are projections of consciouness...But you talk to spirits which means that at some point we still all have individuality...we all still have our own separate spirits...I'm guessing that the fact that we all come from the same consciouness makes us one...Like brothers and sisters from the same parent...But yeah...somebody...anybody..help

[Andwan]

yeah...anytime soon anyone

[cdn2wheeler]

Hi Andwan, sorry I couldn't respond earlier.

Ignoring one's problems will, of course, not make them go away. If you walk around with a stone in your shoe, ignoring it won't remove the stone.

I think much of what SR describes is not ignoring those sorts of issues, but being present to them without becoming emotionally involved in them. It's maybe like, "Yes, there's a stone in my shoe. It's irritating me, and that's causing me to be short with people around me. But the stone is just a trigger; it's my own mental processes that are causing that trigger to affect my relationships. So the issue isn't the stone, it's my thought patterns..." instead of, "GAWDDAMMIT, that farking thing hurts!"

For the record, I don't really have a lot of belief in the whole spirit guide thing; it's just not a metaphor that works for me. But hey, if it floats your boat, by all means...

[Zukin]

Originally Posted by Andwan

Should I just simply ignore the promblems that I'm having? By ignoring them, will they go away? Should I just start fighting fire with fire and be mean to thoes who are aggresive to me...I orginally decided that by simply choosing to ignore their exsitence I would be find, but that has left me feeling very grey and a little angry because the promblem hasn't left i.e. I'm just ignoring it.

Try using the techniques outlined in this post by Steve:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...ng-depression/

If it's certain people who are bothering you, you can try these techniques:
http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/200...ficult-people/

[DrMartinRussell]

Originally Posted by Andwan

Is there anyone out there who can help? I'm really frustrated...I've even started seeing a psychiatrists I guess all of this self help stuff is really starting to get next to me...

You don't really go into enough specifics for me to reply with much more than generalities. If you can give some specifics then maybe we can be more helpful.

However if you are concerned about privacy, and yet are getting to the point of seeing psychiatrist's then I created a product specifically for such a situation which you can find at...
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