How to talk to anyone, anywhere, anytime.

[ken nubo]

When you’re out there in the field talking to women, the most important thing to remember is not to place too much importance on what you say. See a girl you like? Step in and say something.

The content of what you say doesn’t really matter. You can ask her just about anything to initiate the conversation. That’s why a lot of pick up artist like to use an opinion opener, which is fine (but try not to get caught using the same opinion opener on the same girl, haha)

What really matters is your response to her response. Make it a sharp, witty response at the beginning to get the attraction going.

Not the best way to do it:

You: What do you do for a living?
Her: I’m a school teacher.
You: Oh, that’s good. How long have you been teaching?
Her: 4 years, bah bah bah.
You: That’s cool. What do you like about teaching?
Her: Shut up, you’re boring me.

The better way to do it:

You: What do you do for a living?
Her: I’m a school teacher.
You: You teach elementary school or something? With those annoying little kids clinging to your legs while yelling “Teacher, Jason punched me!”
Her: Haha, no, it isn’t that bad. They’re a quiet bunch
You: That’s good. At least some of the kids are adorable.
Her: Yeah …
You: You got the school teacher vibe, I can feel it.
Her: How so?
You: Bah bah bah

Let the conversation flow, don’t stay on the same thread too long and don’t ask boring questions and you should be off to a good start. Remember, don’t place too much importance on what you say, just say whatever is on your mind.

At first you might suck but after many nights out in the field, you’ll be smooth like the guy from Hitch.

[Freelancer]

When I read the title I immediatley thought;
Open your mouth and stop thinking.

Works for me anyway.