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ZachHart72 · 09-13-2007, 08:40 PM

So, I have just started university, and its been awesome. I have met so many people that i hardly know anyones name.

My dilemma involves one person i met.

I met her in the cafeteria a while ago, and we talked for about an hour. She was also the first person who i had really talked to from another faculty and residence. Because of this there are very slim chances i will see her again anytime soon. I also kinda want to keep in contact with this person because i dont really have many friends outside classes and residence.

I also found them on facebook, but i would feel a bit like a stalker contacting them that way. Thus i am a bit confused

While this may seem trivial, it seems like a big issue to me, being a rather awkward person. I wondered if anyone could suggest a course of action.

NotesMaeve · 09-13-2007, 08:53 PM

Contact them on Facebook. Just say, "Hi, it was really fun talking to you the other day! Hope to see you again!

Later,
(Your name goes here)"

If they write back, then suggest you hang out at a coffee shop.

Brutha · 09-15-2007, 03:55 AM

A facebook profile might also be revealing about the place where you can meet the person.
You might look through her friendlist and look for common friends.

09-13-2007, 08:40 PM	#1 (permalink)
ZachHart72 Junior Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 9	Confusing Social Situation So, I have just started university, and its been awesome. I have met so many people that i hardly know anyones name. My dilemma involves one person i met. I met her in the cafeteria a while ago, and we talked for about an hour. She was also the first person who i had really talked to from another faculty and residence. Because of this there are very slim chances i will see her again anytime soon. I also kinda want to keep in contact with this person because i dont really have many friends outside classes and residence. I also found them on facebook, but i would feel a bit like a stalker contacting them that way. Thus i am a bit confused While this may seem trivial, it seems like a big issue to me, being a rather awkward person. I wondered if anyone could suggest a course of action.

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09-13-2007, 08:53 PM	#2 (permalink)
NotesMaeve Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Sacramento, CA Posts: 937	Contact them on Facebook. Just say, "Hi, it was really fun talking to you the other day! Hope to see you again! Later, (Your name goes here)" If they write back, then suggest you hang out at a coffee shop.

09-15-2007, 03:55 AM	#3 (permalink)
Brutha Family Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Berlin, Germany Posts: 8,749	A facebook profile might also be revealing about the place where you can meet the person. You might look through her friendlist and look for common friends.

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