[Adult] A Question About Sex

[madgeylou]

Originally Posted by Life Warrior

If a man hasn't had a release in a while, it is actually very easy to get too stimulated and have a quick orgasm. Physical activity beforehand would increase the sexual drive in most cases. Try to have him take care of your needs first, and then if you have time for a second session, he will last much longer then.

this is what i was going to say. i was in a long-term relationship for a while, where we'd go like 2-4 weeks without seeing each other. after not getting it on for a while, the first few times would be sweet, but brief.

[ripcurly]

when i havent had sex for a while (whic is currently always lol), i am definitelyu much quicker and more aroused the first few times around. after a while i get "used" to sex, and can last longer. im working on some sort of tantra or something so this doesnt happen, but ...what can you do?

[Chado2423]

Originally Posted by {aspiring_to_clarity}

Okay, I am sorta embarrased even bringing this up, but I thought since you all know so much about everything maybe you could help. Anyone who's not interested in knowing about my sex life, move along .

Well I wouldn't say that we know so much about everything... I find myself pressed to ask questions just as much as the next guy. I personally haven't had sex in two years, so I really don't think that I'm right to answer your question... although it is true that we can get aroused too quickly if we haven't had our "needs" met. I hate that word "need", however in a sexual context... we don't need it, it merely makes us feel good temporarily... it is more of a primal desire for both sexes.