What Is The Point?

[Lioness]

So you go to a psychic and they tell you stuff is going to happen. Whether it's good or bad, what can you do about it if it's going to happen anyway?

How does going to a psychic, even a great one, help you in your life?

[Prinie]

Originally Posted by Lioness

So you go to a psychic and they tell you stuff is going to happen. Whether it's good or bad, what can you do about it if it's going to happen anyway?

How does going to a psychic, even a great one, help you in your life?

They give you options. Sometimes life seems blurry and one wants insight. But your life is in your hands. You can shift course at any time. You don't need to see one.

[desertrat]

As I am a do it your self , hands on kind of guy , I would say learn how to do things for your self . Lets say you have a lot of repressed stuff from this life and past ones , you can learn to let all this stuff go . desert rat

[Bonadea]

Some stuff seems written in stone, while other things aren't. It's not all future stuff.

When we were house hunting, which town should I look in?

I'm having a problem with this relationship, can you give me some guidance about it.

Should I go back to school?

[thecommoner]

Here is a Link to Erin's Blog and that would lead to many, that might help you get clarified.

Can we change our fate?

[Angelz]

Just because a psychic says something does not make it true. We all have choices and free will. If we don't desire an outcome all we have to do is change our circumstances, make the right decisions and our life is altered.

[congruenthealth]

Originally Posted by Angelz

Just because a psychic says something does not make it true. We all have choices and free will. If we don't desire an outcome all we have to do is change our circumstances, make the right decisions and our life is altered.

I absolutely agree. I tend to have a very good track record of my "gut instinct" or "intuitition" meshing very well with what I get from readings and then what actually happens. So when I got a reading earlier this year that I'd most likely get pregnant in the summer (which also meshed very strongly with my gut feeling), I made a conscious decision when the summer started to make sure that it didn't happen, as I had a wierd health issue, my marriage was in pretty rocky territory and I had just started my dream job. Pregnancy was probably not the most optimal choice...so I "changed my circumstances" and made a conscious decision to do something differently and now, my life is flying along feeling very right....as in, I'm loving my dream job, my marriage is amicably split and I'm definitely not pregnant.

But....the reading DID give me the ability to think about my life situation and make the best choice for me, so perhaps that is another way of looking at psychic readings. Had I not had the reading, true, I could be exactly where I am today but it could also be completely different. Having the reading gave me the opportunity to throw around those possibilities and make the choice to move my life where I wanted it to go.

I do think, though, that we are here for certain reasons and lessons to be learned, so if you're meant to have a particular experience, it will come up again and again until you learn what you need to learn.

[Angelz]

I agree 100% congruent! We are all here for a reason and the seasons come and go with lessons but if you look hard you will find you have repeated several patterns in your life to try and learn the lessons that you set up for yourself.