my brother died today

[valb]

Is there a way to communicate with him. I need him.

[valb]

someone please help me. he was just 16, he killed himself on pure impulse. He didnt know what he was doing. If there is anyone who can help in any way please contact me.

[freddy]

Sorry for your loss of your brother. My suggestion would be to read some of the post by Erin on death and how to connect with some one on the other side. From my experience it takes a little time before you can contact some one who has pass away. I'm sure other who have more knowledge will post on how you can go about connecting with him. Have comfort to know he is with you right now and hears you. Just start talking to him as you would, an soon you will get the answers you seek. Best to you. Freddy

[StarieEyed]

My little brother died two weeks ago, he was only 18 I feel your pain. But I am happy to say it is just been two weeks and I am not sad anymore. I mean yeah if I think about him directly I get a little sad but I am not ruined forever. I am so so so sorry

[Sandstone]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[gnostic]

sorry for your loss. i've read of many people skilled in the art of mediumship, but i've never contacted one. i hope you heal with the passage of time. peace....

[valb]

Can anyone who is gifted please contact me? Or put me in contact with someone who can help... or at least try. Or at least respond in reference to my question. Is every "gifted" person busy shopping for a reality show.... or do you actually use your powers to help people?

[bluestar]

I am so terribly sorry to hear about your brother's death. I have had "mediumistic" experiences in my life, but all have been absolutely spontaneous, and I have not been trained, and cannot seem to do them to order. They happen when they happen. So in that respect I cannot help you in the way you need right now.

But I CAN tell you about an experience I once had, that was very moving. I was out-of-body, (in full consciousness) and was drawn to a place where there was a young girl (about the same age as your brother) She had committed suicide by drinking Vodka and taking drugs, after something had happened to upset her, but had not really intended to die. She was distraught.
Let me tell you, some Unearthly beautiful Wise Beings were standing nearby, waiting for her to make the transition across from this world to the next, which she had to do of her own freewill. Then they would help her and take her into the Light. There was no sense of judgement passed upon her, they had nothing but patience and grace. She was a Human Soul, to them, not merely a "suicide" -and as such was as valuable as any Soul. The means of her death didn't seem to matter. The thing that did matter was that she was to pass through to the place she was destined to go.
When the girl had formed some kind of closure on this World, and located her love (strangely enough, through a gift her sister had once given her) -she was then ready to move through to those Beings who escorted her to her True Home.

It might be hard to do right now because of the extent of your grief, but when that acute pain dies down a little, you will be given dreams, which will show you contact with your brother.

[hazelfern]

For valb, I'm very sorry about the loss of your brother. I sense that he is close to you and is trying to communicate but he is having trouble getting through. It feels like he is sorry for what happened and that it wasn't meant to go as far as it did. He is trying to reach you with something that is associated with the color red.

I'm not very connected in right now, that's all that I can pick up. If you want to try and communicate with him, put aside your anger and grief and try to calm your thoughts. He's having a hard time reaching through all of the emotion. And again, I'm sorry for what you are going through, it's not easy to lose someone you love unexpectedly.

[valb]

thank you for your constructive feedback. Everything has been a roller coaster right now. I just hope he understands how much I still love him.

[hazelfern]

Yes, love always comes through.