Anyone willing to help? Friend who has passed away.

[JandJ]

Hey guys my name is, Jenn. Hope you all are well. On 9/27/10 someone dear to my heart died suddenly. after hearing of his passing, I was very distraught. A few days after he had died I was crying on the couch and all of a sudden I heard his thoughts but in my voice. Also I felt tingling. I've had had quite a few people in my life pass away and never experienced this before. Well it has been a little over a year since he has passed and this whole time I still hear his thoughts accompanied with the tingling and feeling of cobwebs on my face. The tingle is mainly on my crown and usually spreads down the side of my face, spine , legs. I listen to my iPod before bed most nights and songs just are so meaningful like he is dedicating them to me. I'll ask him to lay next to me and the tingling starts. Part of me believes it's Jay, but the other part I question. About a month ago I spoke to a medium on the internet and I showed her his picture, She was very accurate and say's he visits me often and other things, but never validated if that is his thought I really hear. It is driving me crazy not knowing. How do I know for sure it is Jay I am hearing and feeling? Jay had told the medium to remember the smell of his after shave..to wait for it..that will be him. I am still waiting for the smell. ;( any insight is greatly appreciated! Thanks in advance.

Jennifer

[desertrat]

Welcome to the forum . It would be my guess that it is the ghost of the person you knew . I have never heard of a ghost putting there thoughts in to some one else head tho. that sounds more demon like . I really think you need to let this person go. You might want to read some of Erin's blogs Erin Pavlina desert rat

[JandJ]

Thanks for the reply, desertrat. Maybe I worded it wrong. More of he talks to me in my mind. I do not feel it is a demon though. I will check out her blog.

[JagJ]

It's Jay. Perhaps you need to ask him to come and visit you in a dream. Have you dreamed about him? This is one way that people who have passed on visit. My brother died 2 years ago, and he sometimes visits me in dreams. But other times, I can feel his presence as I am clairsentient. I also pick up on my boyfriend whos very much alive when he thinks about me. It doesn't happen all the time, but sometimes it comes through. Intuition is a funny thing in that it is so subtle that we often times mistake it for other things, and if we do accept it, we may still think we are going crazy and all. But, a meeting with a high quality medium like you did should confirm your suspicions as it did. Good luck, and I am sorry for your loss.

JagJ

[JandJ]

Originally Posted by JagJ

It's Jay. Perhaps you need to ask him to come and visit you in a dream. Have you dreamed about him? This is one way that people who have passed on visit. My brother died 2 years ago, and he sometimes visits me in dreams. But other times, I can feel his presence as I am clairsentient. I also pick up on my boyfriend whos very much alive when he thinks about me. It doesn't happen all the time, but sometimes it comes through. Intuition is a funny thing in that it is so subtle that we often times mistake it for other things, and if we do accept it, we may still think we are going crazy and all. But, a meeting with a high quality medium like you did should confirm your suspicions as it did. Good luck, and I am sorry for your loss.

JagJ

Hi JagJ. I actually had my first dream about his not too long ago. Only thing is i didn't realize he was dead, just felt like a dream then a visitation dream if there is a difference. When you feel your brothers presence, what does it feel like if you don't mind answering.

[desertrat]

Erin has many good blogs , this is the one I relly ment Does thinking about deceased relatives hold them here? I had a girlfriend visit me in a couple of dreams just after she dround in 93 . desert rat