Dead mother

[kuhblayum]

I'm 17 and my mother had died when I was 7 and I've only had a probably 5 dreams about her ever since.

I'm very familiar with strange dreams. About 3 months ago, I had a dream every single time I went to sleep for a month straight and they were all REALLY unusual. I haven't had them as frequently but I do still have them probably 4 times a week.

Today I had a dream about my mom. I walked in this unfamiliar house (but in my dream it was normal) and I sat down beside my great grandmother and one of my mom's old boyfriends. He told me that I had just missed my mom, and she was here but she had to go. I told him to tell her to come back, and he gave me his phone to text her. Now, in my dream, I know she's dead but she came back to life and I didn't find it unusual. I just thought it was normal that she had been there. Anyways, I texted her off of his phone and I said, "mom please come back, i'm engaged and i want you to be here for the wedding." (I think that's also weird because I'm not engaged. I do have a boyfriend who I've been with for 3 years.) Anyway, I gave him his phone back and I asked why she left. And my great grandma said, "oh i dont know, she was mad about something and stormed off." As I look up at my great grandma where she was sitting, I saw two child sized ghosts. I jumped into my grandma's chair because I was scared. My grandma chuckled and told me to calm down. The ghosts looked at each other and laughed really evil like, and their faces turned skeleton like. So i close my eyes, and when I opened them again, the ghosts were in half? They weren't full bodies, they were just kind of like black/gray shadows with skeleton like faces and both of them only had half of a face.

I then woke up sweating and scared, but I just wanted someones opinion on this dream. When I dream about my mom, it feels so real, like she's really there. I feel really close to her when I dreamed about her.

Also, my great grandma was alive and well in my dream. But in real life, she's sick/depressed and hasn't gotten out of bed for 10 years since my mom died.
And my moms old boyfriend has always been nice to me but we never talk, ever since I was little. My family tells me to stay away from him because they think he knows something about the death of my mother.

If anyone could please tell me what this means. I know it has to mean something. I'd appreciate it!

[DANDUNGAN]

need more details, e.g., what was the lighting in the unfamiliar house?

What were you wearing?

Could you see your feet?

What was the boyfriend wearing?

Where were you sitting? On a couch? What color was it?

Were you to the right or left of the boyfriend.

What color was your great grandmother's hair? What was she wearing?

Could you see her feet?

Stuff like that, ok?

[kuhblayum]

It was dim, as if we only had one lamp on.

I couldn't see myself at all, and her boyfriend was in a red/black striped tshirt with jeans on.

There was two recliners directly in front of each other. My grandma was in one, and my moms boyfriend was in the other. I was sitting on the arm of his chair when I was texting her and then the arm of my grandma's chair when I jumped and got scared.

Looking at him, I was on the left side. So to him, I was on his right side.

Also, my grandma told me to get off of his chair and cross my legs like a lady.

My great grandma has gray hair, so it was like that. Also, in real life she has lost a ton of weight. She's underweight, but before my mom died she was a heavier set woman. In my dream, she was heavy like she used to be.

It almost felt like I was younger, but why would I be texting and saying that I was getting engaged if I was younger ya know? So I don't think I was.

I couldn't see her feet. She was just sitting in the chair doing something, like knitting. But she has never knit before so that's weird.

I was barefoot, I remember that. My moms old boyfriend had gel in his hair all spiked up like he used to do.

I hope that helps.

[FelineNostalgia]

God that sounds intense, I would always say pay attention to the feeling of the dream like really ponder about the essence and the emotion in it.

When you felt close to your mum in the dream was it a good feeling? Sometimes if I think of past loved ones waking or dreaming, I could swear that they're there and I always get this lovely blissful feeling, my mind just immediately calms down.

[MiBeloved]

Consider getting some training in meditation.

Through meditation your psychic perception would develop more and you will have more objectivity.

The part about the difference in your grandmother in the dream and her incapacitated condition on the physical side, means that in the astral world, she is using a healthy body while physically for the time being, she is using an elderly body which is malfunctioning.

As soon as that physical system dies, she will be full time over on the astral side in that other body.

If in these experiences you can train your mind to just see that as another world and see that the people there, good or bad, are just living there the way we live in this world, the horrid parts of those dreams would stop.

[desertrat]

We all go out of body or astral project during certain parts of sleep , and remember it only as a dream . You may of been with your mother , and grand maw .The ghosts and skeletons may be from some kind of fear . desert rat