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LOL! I'm sorry, but I'm reading through a lot of posts and there seems to be so much knowledge out there that people look at as concrete and share as fact. A lot of it is based on faith, personal experience, books they've read, mentor views. I want to know how you KNOW. How do you know? And how do you know well enough to tell anyone else that they're conflicting views are wrong? I'm here to proclaim right now that I know absolutely nothing and it is perhaps the most uplifting position I've ever been in. I've argued my views on things, theories, thought about my own personal spiritual and paranormal experiences, but when I'm asked for proof, I have none. None that can transfer to anyone else. Everyone's seem to vary so much. So there we are. How do I know what I believe, feel, see, hear, think is true? I don't. I feel it is true, but I know nothing. How do you know? What makes it ok for any of us to pick apart and try to disprove others' beliefs. I've done it recently on the subject of solipsism, afterwhich I gave myself time to think about my actions and how belittling, invalidating they could have been to that individual and I felt horrible. <----that I do know. There is not much point in this thread or this post. I'm not even sure what section to put it in. But regardless of my judgement of other peoples' experiences, my feelings on their beliefs, etc., how do I decide and debate whether the other person is wrong if I actually know nothing at all? I simply cannot and I'm now starting to believe that I should not. EVER. It's not my place to impose my beliefs on others. Maybe share things and give them something to think about if I feel it could help, but never tell them they're wrong. Because quite frankly I don't know what's right. Does that make any sense? Any relation out there to these thoughts? Last edited by momo3bur; 09-03-2011 at 06:32 PM. |
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I suggest you study up on something that interests you. Read, try to perform the actions, and just beleive. You will learn more than most people after doing it for a long time. | |
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I guess the thought came to me that I feel what I believe is truth, but what gives me the right to tell someone else that what they believe and feel is not truth when it's different from what I believe? I'm seeing that a lot and I want to know why we do this? Is it for validation of our own beliefs? Is it to destroy others' beliefs so that ours are the only left? Is it ego feeding? I probably should have put this in the spirituality section. I post in paranormal out of habit, I guess. | |
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I know that may seem a bit silly but in truth, many are here "on assignment", from the higher realms, and in turn we had many, many life experiences in this life that were sort of an education in spiritual topics. So with some people here on these forums, there's more to who they are than meet's the eye. One person I would like to point out and everybody probably already knows him is ChrisL, some of his post's or maybe all of them... are really priceless, time and time again I find myself saying that "wow... that was a great answer"... when I read through his posts. I'm sure we could think of others too... but the point I'm making is that many here are specially trained to hand-out guidance and this was done and set-up before we were born.... and of course when we were all in Spirit, we were VERY excited to come here and re-discover all this stuff with the help of our good friends who are also experts at this!! | |
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Personally, I also believed in reincarnation and that we come here for lessons and to teach from our own experiences. Then that is challenged. So then goes an argument about "this is this" and "that is that" etc., etc., and I have to wonder "what is what?" LOL. I say I believe these things and I'm telling this other person they're wrong when I have no way to prove them wrong. They're basing their beliefs on their experiences just as I am, so who I am to invalidate their experiences to tell them they're wrong. I love what you say here. Use what you know to help others. I think that's the bottom line here. Why don't we, instead of telling someone they're wrong, work within other peoples' comfort zones and beliefs to help them overcome their issues? One of the things I personally believe more than anything else is that in the scheme of things it doesn't matter what we believe. So I think if it doesn't matter, then we can apply whatever wisdom we've gained from whatever belief system, experiences, etc., we've had to help anyone else with different beliefs without invalidating them in anyway. Does that make any sense? LOL. I feel like a basket case trying to explain myself. | |
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When applying this to religion, it's really difficult because we're talking about the salvation of one's soul. So can we do this for others without telling them we're wrong? And can we do this whole heartedly believing we are right? I am not Christian, so it's a little hard for me to understand the reasons behind trying to save someone since I don't really believe we have to accept Christ for salvation. But I don't think there is anything wrong with that because I don't think it matters either way. It brings comfort to people. I understand why a Christian wouldn't view this the same way as I do, though, because basically not accepting Christ as Savior means a one-way ticket to hell. LOL. Nobody wants that. I think it's a really noble thing to attempt to save someone and spread the word of what you believe with good intention; however, I feel like it's pointless unless the person you're trying to help is willing to receive the information and believe what you say. I don't think I would try to force my beliefs on Christians anymore (trust me, I've tried) or even argue the cause because I know that faith in God and salvation brings a lot of comfort to people and I don't see the harm in believing. I see much more good than harm, actually. It's when we decide to argue and fight about it where the harm comes in, so I think that's what we should try to avoid. | |
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I don't think you saw what i intend to put. I was giving an example. Wouldn't you try to correct someone if they were wrong? And if your friend was performing a ritual that you saw as bad, wouldnt you correct him? I am just saying that it is the human nature to be right, and try to bring others into equal mind so that your ideas are the greater. I used Christianity and conversion to give a very good example Quote:
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Just to make myself clear - I do believe that what you say is applicable, no matter how the planets are aligned; I just think it's prudent to keep in mind that this 'I'm right, you're wrong'-issue will be emphasised and high-lighted even now. Also a very good time to contemplate why we're doing this (so bravo to you), but I mention it just in case someone needs to dis someone else over whatever in this thread... | |
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I agree that the "I'm right, you're wrong" issue will probably rear it's head here. Maybe everyone's right! Maybe everyone's wrong! We can all argue until we're blue in the face, but we won't know until we're dead...if even then. | |
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Thank you for putting this so lucidly! Have been contemplating the same issue the past few days, castigating myself for the same pettiness (but I let that go now, it's not good for the brain), and I just smile at the synchronicity. The relief is enormous though, isn't it? To 'not know' and it is OK... |
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It is so hard to put into words exactly what I'm trying to express right now. lol. | |
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But we are one, to quote mr Lennon, and shedding the old skin of separatedness, and all the follies of I'mRightYou'reWrong that go with it, will happen. Now I feel my words are all muddled. But it is OK, I still don't know, and it's still a relief!!! | |
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If it doesn't matter then, well, ... it doesn't matter! LOL! OMGosh! It does seem to be one of the hardest things to verbalize. | |
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I like not knowing anything. It's very empowering, yet I do need to remind myself sometimes. The more I ask myself "Is this true?" , the more I learn. For a while I continued to look for information from the outside (books/other people) when I should have been looking in. To answer the original question- we all think we know the truth so we want others to know too. Look within wins everytime I ask myself "What is true?" "Who am I?" I wrote this out for a while because every time I went back to it I realised how 'wrong' i was only the night before (this was taken from Jed McKenna's books) Last edited by Oceans; 09-03-2011 at 09:37 PM. |
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We need to find the answers within ourselves because we have everything we ever need to know available to us right here within. And in knowing this, we should also know that everyone else does too...so it might be nice to stop telling them they're wrong all the time! LOL!!! Right? I don't think it hurts to help people out with a bit of wisdom here or there if you feel the urge, you know. You don't have to say...DO THIS OR ELSE! But I think it's our responsibility to lend a hand and they can take it or leave it, their choice. So letting others find their own answers doesn't mean completely keeping to yourself and not expressing your views, it just means not to ever view yourself as more important or any more wise than the others because their truth is just as valid as yours. HELP them find THEIR truth...not YOURS. And I guess you've got a few nice conversations ahead if it turns out to be anything like yours! I want to let you all know that if any of this sounds like an argument, I DO NOT MEAN IT THAT WAY! I'm trying to work these thoughts out and I needed help. And you all are really, REALLY helping. So thank you! Last edited by momo3bur; 09-03-2011 at 10:44 PM. | |
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I also want to post again that I am TOTALLY GUILTY of trying to impose my beliefs on others. This thought came to me overtime and I'm seeing the fault in what I've done. So if I've ever done it to any of you, I apologize sincerely. |
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You know things through experience. If you've experienced something, it is true for you. And other people have a whole different range of experiences, so other things will be right or true for them. But, that being said, the only truth is infinite love. Everything else is an illusion. That is probably the most empowering way to look at this. At least for me. It may not work for others, but realizing that God, or Source, or whatever is the only truth and that this world is a dream or an illusion, and that we can change it any time we want. The beauty of life is that you can choose to believe whatever you want. It takes a pretty big person to say they know nothing, but you have to start realizing what is true for you and go from there. Try to choose empowering beliefs and see where they take you. The purpose of life is to enjoy it. So, try to start really enjoying your path of personal growth. |
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Things are true at some levels, while on other levels they do not apply. Also from the practical point of view does it make any sense to say: "I don't know whether 1 + 1 = 2 is a true equation? Obviously, the way this world, we are living in works, it is valid. What sense would it make to say: "I don't know."? Or if your spouse asks you whether you have cheated on her and you haven't (well, at least you're not aware of it), what sense would it make to say: "I don't know." ? And if she became sad what good would it do telling her: "I know that I know absolutely nothing."? Or if I'm not limited by my physical senses in my perception and can visually perceive a ghost making a noise in my room and someone asks me: "Who was making that noise?" What sense would it make to say: "I don't know."? For me the ghost is as real as the person asking. And although all of us - the ghost, the person asking and myself may be but illusions on a certain level, on this level of existence at this very moment (sure, time does not exist And if a Nazi says that the Jews and the Gypses and other races are inferior people or that they are not people at all - like someone told me about the blacks while I was living in South Africa - is it right to let them put those people in the concentration camps and start murdering them? Sure this may sound absurd but is it not what the philosophy of: "I know that I know absolutely nothing" implies? "Well, the Nazis may just be right. I don't know. Why should I argue with them and interfere? Let them do what they believe is right. There is no right or wrong." A man once came to J. Krishnamurti: "Sir, we postulate that there is only Brahman who creates the world and the illusion of it, and the Atman which is in every human being - is of that Brahman. Man has to awaken from this everyday consciousness of plurality and the manifest world, much as he would awaken from a dream..!" J. Krishnamurti's reply was quite long but the point he made here was: "... the world is not an illusion but a terrible reality which man, in his relationship with his fellow man, has constructed. It is this which has to be understood and not your theories of Vedanta..." I resonate with these words. People often tend to talk about the illusory nature of this world and of other things without having had a direct experience. And when one has had such an experience to share some of them tend to play it down proudly saying that they know better because they know that they know absolutely nothing. I like Krisnamurti's practical approach: See everything with fresh eyes from moment to moment. Then you may see the "what is". This is what the Buddha taught and many others. Sometimes it is important to be able to say: "I don't know." But sometimes it is just a hiding away from accepting responsibility. Merrick | |
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One of my favourite examples of humbly expressing ignorance and inexperience comes from Stranger in a Strange Land by Robert A. Heinlein. The protagonist Valentine Michael Smith is a human raised amongst Martians and when expressing his inexperience and ignorance to those he interacts with he simply says "I am an Egg." Can you Grok it? Last edited by Richful; 09-04-2011 at 09:48 AM. Reason: Got Michael's name mixed up. |
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Obviously I do know that on a physical level there are things that are "known." I know 1+1 is 2. LOL. I know how to operate a vehicle. I know how to tie my shoes. I know how to change the oil on my truck and clean the battery cables. I know how to wash dishes. I know *at least I think I know* how to spell supercalifragilisticexpialadocious. When I say I know nothing, I mean I know nothing for sure about spirituality, religion, paranormal, magick, all of these things we like to debate about in the paranormal and spiritual areas of our life. I believe things based on my personal experiences. And I often wonder when people argue over things like The Permission Issue, for example, how they know what is right or wrong. How do we know it's wrong to send a healing without permission? How do we know higher self accepts or doesn't accept depending on your needs? How do we know that karma does or does not exist? For example, with the Karma matter applied to reincarnation, how do we know it exists if we can't remember our past lives? We can't know for sure, we can just believe if we want. Or we don't believe. Either way, it doesn't matter because there is an answer and that answer will be the answer no matter what we believe. Eventually we'll find out what it is. Until then, I think I'm just going to leave it alone and know that I have no control over it regardless of my beliefs, so there is no point getting myself into a tizzy over it. It just adds unnecessary drama into my life. LOL. Of course, I don't particularly enjoy conflict. I suppose it adds spice into the lives of people who enjoy debate and there is nothing wrong with that at all. I will continue to share my beliefs, but this is a personal vow not to tell someone else they are WRONG. Simply because I do not know they are wrong and it's egotistical to think they are because they are not the same as mine. I feel like I'm repeating myself over and over again and I wish I could accurately vocalize what I'm trying to express. I think you guys understand, though. I don't mean to say I know nothing in order to avoid responsibility in anyway. I have no responsibility to correct anyone in their spiritual beliefs or personal experience because that's impossible to do. | |
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