How to deal with persons with sour grape attitude

[arkimote06]

I already posted a topic about unexplainable negative feeling against a person even they don't do anything or you have have met for the first time and then this first impression will last. Since I was a child i'm always the center of attraction through academics, attractiveness, talents and I don't know why teasing and bullying, sour graping even though they know he/she is no competition to what I can do.

[Summerbreeze]

So you posted it in a psychic&paranormal forum with this question, I'll give you a more unpopular answer.

We have different bodies, because we are multidimensional beings, but perceive the world through just what we'd call physical, from what I know earth seems the only planet with that relation.

specific things we would relate to the subconscious are storaged in one of these bodies. It's kind of an energetic field, see Eckhart Tolle describing this energy field as "pain-body".

When you are sensitive and/or emphatic and someone with a big negative energy field is in you near you tend to turn aggressive, because the energetic field vibrates low and gets in resonance with the own energy field that is in the same level of vibration.
This works also for positive people, that's why people describe feeling so peaceful near a master.

So maybe this is not want you want to hear, but you maybe have some similar energies in yourself that are merely dormant but get in resonance with other people and cause this feelings. It's not so important how strong they are, but it's more about the resonance, so maybe it helpd to put out better vibes

~sb

[arkimote06]

I can't fully understand but is there a way to protect ourselves or be just likable by everyone?

[Midnite]

Originally Posted by arkimote06

I already posted a topic about unexplainable negative feeling against a person even they don't do anything or you have have met for the first time and then this first impression will last. Since I was a child i'm always the center of attraction through academics, attractiveness, talents and I don't know why teasing and bullying, sour graping even though they know he/she is no competition to what I can do.

Why is this in a "paranormal" forum? With that kind of self aggrandisement there isn't anything paranormal about it.

Another thing that possibly didn't cross your mind is the fact that nothing in your subjective reality really truly exists in the way/shape that your currently perceive. With all that attractiveness and academic ability, you failed to appropriately distinguish your inner awareness of who and what you truly are in relation to the rest of the world. I actually feel that your subjective reality is relying on the opinions of others to create some kind of artificial bubble in which your currently reside. You need to learn how to break those barriers down by finding your self-fulfilling learning curve, and effectively move away from the social norm. External energies will not be able to make you feel comfortable in your current vehicle, but internal energies however are the key to not only loving yourself and also loving your surroundings.

People have an innate ability to feel the energy centres of other human beings on a subconscious, or if you like, ethereal level. What this means is that you can be completely rubbish on the inside, while having the best and most pure intentions on the outside, and the very people around you will intuitively pick up that your are indeed nothing that special.

Stop posting about your nonexistant social life, unless of course you are able to effectively 'socialise' with ethereal entities or some kind of higher being, in which case I seriously doubt you will ever notice neither 'sour graping' or feelings of something being in competition with you.

I just think you are going about it all wrong. You don't truly exist. There is no such thing as 'you' or 'I', as we are all in fact the result of a Source energy, so in a way, you are actually having problems with yourself...

[Summerbreeze]

Originally Posted by arkimote06

I can't fully understand but is there a way to protect ourselves or be just likable by everyone?

Just want you to think of, that you are always there in the first place.
It is really hard to work on limited beliefs and traumas.
We all have this kind of stuff, but wouldn't admit it freely.
But basically these stuff limits us to behave more like animals.
There is quite good material if you want to get rid of it.


~sb

[arkimote06]

i also think it should be posted to personality effectiveness but I just think it just happens because of auras we project. I don't know what kind of aura I have for someone to automatically be annoyed...I took the chakra fun test and ther are explanations but it's just linear...it just explains some aspects...How I wish we can please anyone.