Mental sex

[JustBe]

I now, have 3 experiences with women to have sex only mentally. 2 with a woman who lives now in another country, and my feelings, desires, for union with this girl, to be together, to be one, are pretty strong.

Actually today it resulted in feeling a connection with her, where I really feel my heart rate going up, and enjoying a type of feeling. I am actually feeling the heat and I just have mental sex with her.

What does this mean?

Do you do this *together* or am I, as the man, the aggressor in this... and kind of seduce her mind, mentally.

Does this means, she allows it? Or I am using a backdoor for having sex with her?


Probably I can't hide, I have feelings for her. Not I am not willing to share, but I have decided for my own, it's better to live seperate for a while.


Anyone have wisdom in this?

[bluestar]

Yes if you have a strong bond between you then you might well be able to connect with her mentally, emotionally -a kind of telepathy I think. It is very possible, and does happen when people feel strongly attracted and also are sensitive -that they can feel each others feelings.
Why aren't you together? I didn't get that

[Coccinnelle]

It is absolutely possible.
When there is mutual love and when there is strong emotional connection between two people this can absolutely happen even if the other person lives in a different continent.
I've experienced exactly that. It was an unbelievable experience.

[JustBe]

It happened today again.

I have the answer about what it means:

Nothing.

The world is meaningless.

She decides what the meaning of this is.

So do I.

[JustBe]

Let's give it my meaning:

I have a form of resistance to get to work and solve my own problems.
So I am thinking about this *****.

Action diversion.

Distraction.


I have good advice here for all:

Pay 10.000$ for 10 sessions with Steve Pavlina or Erin.

Biggest WASTE of money you can ever think off (I have paid 1500 $ dollar with mediums who were pretty good, own a full blown company. Guess what.... I went to another (free and more talented, higher truth speaking) medium and this medium totally disagreed with the commercial ones....

[Summerbreeze]

you don't need a penny, we can rely on give&receive and intentions when we try to not hold much conflict about ourselves. This can also be money income/outflow.

But nonetheless you have to tell me how mental sex works.

~sb

[Frankmat]

Mental Sex hey.......

[old dead wood]

The occasions were I have had "mental sex" with someone who I had an emotional connection with number in the tens...where there were no emotional connections (just strong emotions on MY part) number in the thousands. In every case, it was just delusion on my part. Strongly believing these mental happenings to be something else ended up with me risking entanglement in psychologically dangerous mental obsessions.

[JustBe]

I didn't really had sex with her, I think.

I won't be surprised if she had sexual fantasies.. and I was connecting with her at that moment.
It's very strong feeling, when my heart rate rises up, I consider we connect..

Anyway, I really felt good connecting with her.

This happened two times.

And yesterday I mailed her (in our case, in our relationship this is very appropiate thing to do as far as I am concerned).

Anyway, she just read the message (now 10 min. ago or so).

I felt her heart bouncing, and pounding, really strong and fast :-)

But I have to say, all this, is still coming from basicly 'fear'.
It's a mental action diversion, a distraction.

Anyway, it wasn't that bad action. I am glad I shared this..

I hope actually she won't answer.. But just let it go..

Probably she does...


Actually best chance for me to get together physically some moment in time in future.

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by old dead wood

The occasions were I have had "mental sex" with someone who I had an emotional connection with number in the tens...where there were no emotional connections (just strong emotions on MY part) number in the thousands. In every case, it was just delusion on my part. Strongly believing these mental happenings to be something else ended up with me risking entanglement in psychologically dangerous mental obsessions.

Yeah, it took me a VERY long time to figure out how I can program my mind to get PHYSICAL progress with women.

This mental stuff is nice. But leads to nowhere in real life.

Allthough in this case, with her, it is a very gentle and soft way to find peace between the of us.

( I basicly lost her, cause of fear. And then made things even more worse by ego issues).