The Gentle Way: requesting most benevolent outcomes

[beatlechan]

Thanks for the wonderful post. I'm going through a very difficult situation in my life right now and not sure how I am able to deal with it. Just when I thought about ending it all, I stumbled on this post. It was very encouraging. It was like my GA was telling me that I forgot that he was around to help and pointed me to this.

After reading it a few days ago, I did a lot of small MBO's not related to my issue over the past few days and was happy and surprised with the results.

I have also done MBO's to resolve my issue in 24 hours. I am asking for the impossible but I think anything is possible. I am taking whatever action to end my situation and asking my GA to guide me. I hope to give a great update tomorrow!

thank you!

[beatlechan]

Funny thing. I just happened to turn on the TV and the show 'Ghostly Encounters" was on and the topic was Guardian Angels...someone is trying to tell me something.

[Catheriam]

My angels must be kickin' in high gear -- this is my birthday and my first post on any thread, ever. However, MBO'S! Now there's a habit worth making and since it has played such a wonderful part of my life, I thought to flex my "Chat" fingers and send a post of encouragement to daily use MBO's. Steve, thanks for the word perfect MBO prior to slumber. Had I forgotten to do? Um, yeah! I am writing out my daily MBO's, putting a sticky note in my car, one on the bathroom mirror, until this habit is truly integrated into my being. I just sat down while reading the post and sent a plethora of "I request ..." prayers to special people in my life.

On a busy Saturday in Columbia, I thought to "just stop by" Best Buy to look for a portable printer. The one I use when I travel for business is an HP but company-owed; at BB, $299. Okay, I'll let that printer go as neither salesperson, offered any other suggestion. Then "I" came forward to ask -- that "I" which is one with the angels and the authentic Sprit-gifted creative energy within us -- "Do you have a Canon?" Oh, yes, they did, around the corner, and on sale, last day today, for $199. Bought it on the spot. I feel this is the real thread, the connection, which overrode my neglecting to ask for an MBO as I walked into the store for a "perfectly priced portable printer".

I am requesting an MBO to have more fun, amazing, delicious and loving anecdotal evidence of MBO's in my life, as I sure do love reading about them when others share them!

Light and Love!

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by beatlechan

Funny thing. I just happened to turn on the TV and the show 'Ghostly Encounters" was on and the topic was Guardian Angels...someone is trying to tell me something.

Just some practical advice. Have you tried taking St. John's Wort? When you're having a tough time, sometimes that helps to keep you from being so depressed about a situation. It's available at your local drug store or health food store.

And you're right, your own GA was trying to let you know it's around and I'm sure thrilled that you have started asking for assistance. Just keep in mind that I normally recommend requesting lots of small MBO's to get immediate feedback that this actuall WORKS! Sometimes the big requests can take weeks or months depending upon what your GA has to put in motion.

If you need any suggestions you can always email me direct at TomTMoore6(at)aol.com.

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by BelovedK

I have a question about MBOs.

I have several extremely pressing financial situations, and need to have my car fixed. It feels like it is all coming down on me at once

I have tried a MBO (just now) and trust that it will work, but with so many needs, I hate to just make request after request all at once. All of these things are very urgent. I asked for a most benevolent outcome in having all of my bills paid. Should I focus on one at a time, or is it okay to lump them together? TIA

Not sure if I responded to this post, as I've been quite busy last week.

You can order my books through Amazon's website in the UK. The first book is also out in Germany (title changed in German) so go to Amazon.de and enter Tom Moore in the search box. And it's out in Greece now.

[Kaie]

Originally Posted by Tom3344

Not sure if I responded to this post, as I've been quite busy last week.

You can order my books through Amazon's website in the UK. The first book is also out in Germany (title changed in German) so go to Amazon.de and enter Tom Moore in the search box. And it's out in Greece now.

Thank you, I will do just that

[beatlechan]

Originally Posted by Tom3344

Just some practical advice. Have you tried taking St. John's Wort? When you're having a tough time, sometimes that helps to keep you from being so depressed about a situation. It's available at your local drug store or health food store.

And you're right, your own GA was trying to let you know it's around and I'm sure thrilled that you have started asking for assistance. Just keep in mind that I normally recommend requesting lots of small MBO's to get immediate feedback that this actuall WORKS! Sometimes the big requests can take weeks or months depending upon what your GA has to put in motion.

If you need any suggestions you can always email me direct at TomTMoore6(at)aol.com.

Thank you for the suggestion. . . as for my big MBO, as expected, nothing happened after 24 hours. Though things have gotten worse family wise as a result of my problem, I figured this to be part of the plan. I guess I have to roll with the punches and expect everything will be exactly as I had requested. Of course, I am not sitting around and moping. I am doing what I can to make it work.

[missbhaven]

Originally Posted by beatlechan

Thank you for the suggestion. . . as for my big MBO, as expected, nothing happened after 24 hours.

Why ask when you have already envisioned what you want. If you expect it not to happen, it won't happen for you. How often when given a deadline that is completely open that you follow threw on time?

[moonrambler]

Originally Posted by missbhaven

If you expect it not to happen, it won't happen for you.

Is this some sort of MBO rule?

One thing I really liked about this MBO concept is it does away with all the regulations people go on about with LoA/IM. I didn't see anything about how you have to belieeeeeve, you have to feeeeeeel a certain way and so on. You just have to ask.

[lookcloser]

Originally Posted by moonrambler

One thing I really liked about this MBO concept is it does away with all the regulations people go on about with LoA/IM. I didn't see anything about how you have to belieeeeeve, you have to feeeeeeel a certain way and so on. You just have to ask.

Exactly why I love it too! The first few times I neither believed nor envisioned anything but they all appeared to me in a platter! Although its not easy now as it was before(Maybe that was beginners luck, maybe my GAs wanted to encourage me), it still is so much more simpler and easier than all those LoA and IM techniques.

Getting to know about this is one of the best things that ever happened to me. Its actually safe to say it has changed my life in significant way

[missbhaven]

Originally Posted by moonrambler

Is this some sort of MBO rule?

One thing I really liked about this MBO concept is it does away with all the regulations people go on about with LoA/IM. I didn't see anything about how you have to belieeeeeve, you have to feeeeeeel a certain way and so on. You just have to ask.

This is why I asked my question at the end.
Look at the situation.
"Oh guardian angel, I want you to do something for me within 24 hours, but in truth I don't really expect it to be done in 24 hours."

To me if the path of least resistance (or more beneficial path) is going to take longer than 24 hours, (as an entity trying to carry out your assignment) would you be more concerned about the deadline you aren't expected to make or getting it right within a reasonable time frame?

In school/work are all your projects handed in on the first deadline or were to pushing near the end absolute final deadline for a better grade/report?

To me all your requests are expectations that you would like to see form into reality. If you expect nothing to really happen in 24 hours, that's a statement/command that's been attached to your request. It switches your deadline to a lower priority sequence and puts emphasis on the other elements of the request, IMHO.

Lookcloser, you "neither believed nor envisioned anything", you left it open. That is different from not expecting requirements of your request not to be met.
How often do we prioritize our own work? We often handle our own simple requests quite quickly due to their ease.
If your teacher/boss assigns you a big task that takes you a week to work out, but if they send you an email requesting assistance on a matter that will take you 10 minutes; are you going to wait until task 1 is done or while in a lull get task 2 over and done with?

I agree with the nice thing about this being that all you have to do is ask. It is stated that if it is not beneficial or for you the request won't be given. So if it isn't working for you, you may want to look at what you are asking for and redefine it to something you are more in tune with(same as some LOA techniques). To me if you expect something not to happen it is based on your belief it is unrealistic. Many of already know the likelihood of getting getting yes for an answer is increased for things that feel more achievable, even if it is difficult. It is why we ask for help after all.

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by lookcloser

Exactly why I love it too! The first few times I neither believed nor envisioned anything but they all appeared to me in a platter! Although its not easy now as it was before(Maybe that was beginners luck, maybe my GAs wanted to encourage me), it still is so much more simpler and easier than all those LoA and IM techniques.

Getting to know about this is one of the best things that ever happened to me. Its actually safe to say it has changed my life in significant way

I agree it's been life changing for me too! And yeah, it does work better, seemingly, than the LOA, but still it does help to also envision great outcomes.... so your GA can NOT have to deal with any resistance from you. Just like saying the mantra, "I expect graet things today, great things tomorrow and great things all this week".....saying that helps your GA to bring you even more good stuff.... but from a LOA point of view your expectations are very important. Anticipating good things is like right out the LOA rulebook. So don't give up on the LOA just yet...lol.

[beatlechan]

How often do we prioritize our own work? We often handle our own simple requests quite quickly due to their ease.
If your teacher/boss assigns you a big task that takes you a week to work out, but if they send you an email requesting assistance on a matter that will take you 10 minutes; are you going to wait until task 1 is done or while in a lull get task 2 over and done with?

I agree with the nice thing about this being that all you have to do is ask. It is stated that if it is not beneficial or for you the request won't be given. So if it isn't working for you, you may want to look at what you are asking for and redefine it to something you are more in tune with(same as some LOA techniques). To me if you expect something not to happen it is based on your belief it is unrealistic. Many of already know the likelihood of getting getting yes for an answer is increased for things that feel more achievable, even if it is difficult. It is why we ask for help after all.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for your honest comment. I agree with what you are saying. My request was out of the realm of my own reality to actually happen. However,since my last post, opportunities that will help me to resolve my issue are showing up. While it didn't happen in 24 hours, it is starting in a manner that seems realistic to me.

[maraislanuit]

I've been thinking a lot about MBOs and when they don't exactly happen on my time frame. For example, when I learn a new manifestation technique, I almost always ask for a husband. Everyone in my life knows that I want to get married, that I want to settle down, that I want to have children...and they also know that as much as I want these things, in my heart of hearts, I know I'm not ready. I have things I have to do. I have to learn and grow in different ways. I may I ask for a husband, but if you could read my energy, you would see that there's a part of me that is holding back.

I think it might be similar for the individual who didn't truly expect for their MBO to happen on their time frame. I don't think that you have to sync up vibrations and really, truly feeeeeeel your request in a LOA sort of way (I like the idea of LOA having multiple vowels for some reason) but I do think you can send mixed signals, whether or not you verbalize them. Like, "I request the most benevolent outcome for me to meet my husband and lover-soulmate and I ask that this outcome be better and more amazing than I could have imagined, but just not right now, finals are coming up, I have to finish university, I barely have the energy to cook dinner after I get home from work, thanks!" or "...and I request this outcome be fulfilled within the next twenty-four hours but I'm not really expecting that this situation clear up right now, maybe later or never, not sure, thanks!"

[missbhaven]

Originally Posted by beatlechan

Thanks for your honest comment. I agree with what you are saying. My request was out of the realm of my own reality to actually happen. However,since my last post, opportunities that will help me to resolve my issue are showing up. While it didn't happen in 24 hours, it is starting in a manner that seems realistic to me.

YEAHH!! I"M glad things are working out for you.

[mspositive]

Wow, talk about instant Benevolent Outcome! My daughter misplaced her diary in the house a few days ago. In it she keeps records of her work shifts, her university assignments, address book etc. It is her lifeline, she prefers to write things down rather than keep an electronic record. She told me about the loss when it happened, but I didn't really pay much attention, just saying it would turn up.

Today I was talking to her in her room when she mentioned it again, getting quite flustered in the process. She said she had searched absolutely everywhere (she's a neat freak so it would be obvious if it was there.) I asked her if she had asked her angels for help. She said she had. I hadn't told her about MBO's, and told her to repeat after me, "I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that I find my diary quickly and easily, and may the result be...." I hadn't even gotten the sentence out, and she wasn't saying it with me. I turned to start walking out of the room, and for some reason looked down. Catching my eye was something wedged at the end of her bed behind a chest of drawers. I don't even know how I saw it, as it is about half the size of an A4 sheet of paper, and was in the shadows. It was as if it was illuminated for me. I practically pounced on it with all confidence, and there it was!

I started laughing and told her to thank her angels wholeheartedly, and how was that for immediate results? She just sat there holding the book with a stunned look on her face, knowing she'd already checked all under and around her bed.

The angels really were on the ball with this one

xxxmsp

[Kaie]

Can someone help me with the wording for a request for $3500 more to finish paying bills and get ahead a bit with some in reserve. I feel that my wording is always awkward when I wing it.

I figured I would ask for just what I need instead of going over the top trusting that all of my needs will be met.

Thanks in advance

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by Kaie

Can someone help me with the wording for a request for $3500 more to finish paying bills and get ahead a bit with some in reserve. I feel that my wording is always awkward when I wing it.

I figured I would ask for just what I need instead of going over the top trusting that all of my needs will be met.

Thanks in advance

Here's a few good ones:

"I request the most benevolent outcome to easily paying my bills this month, and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect"

Also, you can request MBO's for each individual bill, which is what I do. I did that for paying my car insurance bill once and got a big break on my yearly payment, I actually thought the woman at the office made a mistake and made her check again, since it was the very first time in my whole life I've gotten a big break on my car insurance.

You could also say, "I request the most benevolent outcome for having at least $3500 come to me for paying my bill's and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect.....thank you"

And as a nice ending to this post I'll say a BP for you"


"I ask any and all beings to please help Kaie to pay her bills this month and may this oucome be even better than she could hope for or expect....thank you"

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by maraislanuit

I've been thinking a lot about MBOs and when they don't exactly happen on my time frame. For example, when I learn a new manifestation technique, I almost always ask for a husband. Everyone in my life knows that I want to get married, that I want to settle down, that I want to have children...and they also know that as much as I want these things, in my heart of hearts, I know I'm not ready. I have things I have to do. I have to learn and grow in different ways. I may I ask for a husband, but if you could read my energy, you would see that there's a part of me that is holding back.

I think it might be similar for the individual who didn't truly expect for their MBO to happen on their time frame. I don't think that you have to sync up vibrations and really, truly feeeeeeel your request in a LOA sort of way (I like the idea of LOA having multiple vowels for some reason) but I do think you can send mixed signals, whether or not you verbalize them. Like, "I request the most benevolent outcome for me to meet my husband and lover-soulmate and I ask that this outcome be better and more amazing than I could have imagined, but just not right now, finals are coming up, I have to finish university, I barely have the energy to cook dinner after I get home from work, thanks!" or "...and I request this outcome be fulfilled within the next twenty-four hours but I'm not really expecting that this situation clear up right now, maybe later or never, not sure, thanks!"

This is so true when we make MBO's that we really are not that enthusiastic about. I think in an old newsletter of Tom's he said that our GA's can "read" or guage our intent as we say the MBO. So they know exactly if we really want something or not, even if we have a tendency to lie to ourselves about how much we really want it. Which brings up another good point, and that is to say your MBO's with alot of enthusiasium and excitement, you'll notice you get better results that way. Even saying the "expect great things" mantra, say it with excitement and alot of feeling. Really put your intent behind it.... and then watch things really work out for you.

I like to say MBO's while I'm driving since nobody can hear me. For fun I really put alot of gusto into saying them, and try to feel joyous and excited about their outcome, especially if I'm asking for something big, but really I try to feel this way all the time. So pick times when nobody can hear you and really let it out...lol. When I forget to say them this way, I often have to whisper them when out in public places...(and people must say to themselves.... oh look at that poor man talking to himself...lol) but I don't care... as long as I get it done, MBO's are such a welcome relief!

[Kaie]

Originally Posted by AngelPsychic444

Here's a few good ones:

"I request the most benevolent outcome to easily paying my bills this month, and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect"

Also, you can request MBO's for each individual bill, which is what I do. I did that for paying my car insurance bill once and got a big break on my yearly payment, I actually thought the woman at the office made a mistake and made her check again, since it was the very first time in my whole life I've gotten a big break on my car insurance.

You could also say, "I request the most benevolent outcome for having at least $3500 come to me for paying my bill's and may this outcome be even better than I could hope for or expect.....thank you"

And as a nice ending to this post I'll say a BP for you"


"I ask any and all beings to please help Kaie to pay her bills this month and may this oucome be even better than she could hope for or expect....thank you"

Thank you I will get to work xo

[AngelPsychic444]

Kaie,
There's also an article I found a while back by a woman who works with angels and one day she discovered that angels respect our requests when we get real, and ask for things we really need. Anyway, she said that one day things got really bad for her and she really started to speak outloud to the angels the ask them for help, she told them all about her fears and everything else that was going on with her.

This article is not about MBO's but how to talk to angels in a general sense, when requesting things. I really picked up some great tips and hope everyone in this thread read's it too, in addition to MBO's these tips can be very helpful.

Angelic Help: Can We Get Assistance from Angels ?

[AngelPsychic444]

From Tom's 3/5/11 newsletter:

SPIRIT GUIDES CD


Hugh writes: In "The Gentle Ways" newsletter you recommend getting Dick Sutphen's CD "Spirit Guides". I have gone to his web site and for some reason can't seem to find it. Perhaps the CD is under a different name. Please assist me.

I had several similar emails with the same comments. It is a little difficult to find unless you know where to look. Here is the link:

74-Minute Courses

It's listed down 4 or 5 courses on the page. He has 50% off right now.

[Kelethin]

I'm glad I decided to drop by again. This might be the breakthrough I've been looking for these past years, but Ive had little success with it thus far. I'm trying to use this to restore and enhance my broken ability to communicate with non physical entities, specifically my guide/guardian. I want to be better at it than I ever even conceived was possible. What do you suggest?

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by Kelethin

I'm glad I decided to drop by again. This might be the breakthrough I've been looking for these past years, but Ive had little success with it thus far. I'm trying to use this to restore and enhance my broken ability to communicate with non physical entities, specifically my guide/guardian. I want to be better at it than I ever even conceived was possible. What do you suggest?

Use MBO's for everything, and you'll get where you want to go.
Follow all the tips in this thread, make sure you read through Tom's newsletters and blogs.

[nothingyouwanttoknow]

How would you phrase a wish for long life?

Also, are you supposed to feel anything afterwards (what if you feel down?)? Are there wishes your angel can't grant? How will you know if she/he/it can't?

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by Kelethin

I'm glad I decided to drop by again. This might be the breakthrough I've been looking for these past years, but Ive had little success with it thus far. I'm trying to use this to restore and enhance my broken ability to communicate with non physical entities, specifically my guide/guardian. I want to be better at it than I ever even conceived was possible. What do you suggest?

You can say, "I request a Most Benevolent Outcome to reconnect with my own Guardian Angel and any other beings who wish to communicate with me, thank you!"

Then I believe AngelPsychic has posted about buying the Spirit Guides CD from Dick Sutphen, who was the one that gave me my breakthrough in 2005 to communicate with my GA and others. Check it out. It works, although for some people it may take a few times to become completely used to his voice and to what is going to happen as he puts you into an altered state.

One think I might mention is that his voice is so melodious that at times I would "trip out" as it's called where I would fall into a Delta state and not the Alpha state needed to be in contact. If that happens, instead of laying down, sit up, or even begin the CD slightly past the relaxation techniques he used to relax your body and mind.

I have been able over time, to greatly reduce the time it takes to go into the Alpha state, but I started by simply going over the words he says in most of his CD's to put myself in that relaxed state.

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by nothingyouwanttoknow

How would you phrase a wish for long life?

Also, are you supposed to feel anything afterwards (what if you feel down?)? Are there wishes your angel can't grant? How will you know if she/he/it can't?

I'm sure you'll have other suggestions on this forum, but you can request a MBO to be able to stay on your "soul contract" or soul path for the highest learning in this life.

If you stay on your soul contract--that path YOU decided to try and stay on before birth to get the most out of this life on earth, then yes there are times when you request something that will not happen because it's not on your soul path.

As an example, I tried to put together the financing for several movies based on some spy novels written in WWII by a gentleman named Chaney in the UK. I went to St. Petersburg, Prague, Budapest, Cannes, Paris and L.A. trying to put together the financing, but each time it would fall apart for the strangest reasons. Finally I asked my GA Theo why it happened when I was requesting MBO's each time. He replied that it was not on my soul contract, and that I would reach many more people with my books and writing than I ever would have with the movies.

And the only way to know is to start communicating with your GA. You GA will NEVER tell you to take this path or that path--that's what requesting MBO's are for. Our souls have instructed these golden light beings to not advise, only to assist in a most benevolent manner, WHEN WE ASK, and as long as it does not interfere with our soul contracts (that's what my GA calls them). I still don't know what my soul contract is for the rest of my life--challenges, successes, etc., as my GA says it would be a dull life if we knew everything in advance.

[duygusu]

Well I just found this subject yesterday and am very very happy about it

So I have been saying tons and tons since yesterday, my GA is prolly really getting a workout!

I have a few unresolved issues concerning some people. I mean the issue is unresolved for me because I don't know where I stand with them, or if there is any kind of "issue" still left for them. I tried to ask for a most benevolent outcome and some closure for the issue but I dont think I have my wording down good.

Any ideas or has anyone done this kind of request?

Also, how do I know if silence or no action is actually the outcome of my request?

Thanks!

[Kaie]

My GA is also working overtime, and really coming through. Thank you, thank you, thank you

[Kaie]

Originally Posted by duygusu

I tried to ask for a most benevolent outcome and some closure for the issue but I dont think I have my wording down good.

I have also been having a hard time with my wording. I feel like I am bumbling, but I believe my GA knows what I mean, and I am getting better with each request.