The Gentle Way: requesting most benevolent outcomes

[Circle]

This was the MBO I said before sleep
" Dear Angels and other higher beings there to help, I request the most benevolent outcome for a sound and deep sleep so that I wake up feeling healthy and refreshed. May the outcome be far better than I could have hoped or expected for. Thank you."

[covered]

Thank you for realizing my desperation. I so hope this works.

[HappyIam]

Originally Posted by Circle

The only thing that does not turn out as I MBOed is when I MBOed for a sound and deep sleep. It turned out that for three hours I was just turning sides and Finally when I did get sleep, It was really not deep enough , in fact a horrible sleep. I did this two times and both of the times it was the same outcome

The exact same thing happened to me!!! I've tried mbo's twice for a peaceful, sound, deep sleep and both times the complete opposite happened

[Christa]

Originally Posted by HappyIam

The exact same thing happened to me!!! I've tried mbo's twice for a peaceful, sound, deep sleep and both times the complete opposite happened

I experience the same from time to time, but I know that especially interrupted sleep is an ascension symptom and something we just need to ride out. Funny enough I am not tired the following day, even if I was awake for 2 - 3 hours during the night. What I do now when I wake up is to go outside and say MBOs and BPs or just chat to the angels. During the hours between 1 - 6am the ether is the 'quietest' and 'cleanest', and really, the MBOs I say then are most often very powerfully answered! Going outside is not imperative though; sometimes I simply sit up in bed and whisper the MBOs. I sleep alone, but my housemates need their rest. And evidence that I am sane.

Sometimes though, when I've had a hectic day and I really feel I need some rest, I ask the angels to relieve my symptoms for the night, and allow me to rest and integrate on all levels. Also rather important is to take a good mineral supplement every night before bedtime - the minerals assist cells to assimilate frequency and energetic changes, which we're exposed to now more than ever. (A glass of lukewarm milk is a well-known soother, adding a spoonful of honey and cinnamon will help even more. Tasty too.) Sweet dreams

[Christa]

Originally Posted by AngelPsychic444

Just imagine if our world leaders, now that I think of it, started using MBO's....oh wow, overnight things will get better and just keep going!

Funny you mention world leaders, AP. Here in SA we have a revolutionary who has been scaring the country this past year or so with his hate speeches and radical political proposals. He is the leader of the ruling party's Youth League, and his many supporters often demonstrate disruptively and violently. About 4 days ago this man was finally charged by his party for bringing it in disrepute, among others, and the final hearing will be tomorrow.

My BP is not only for the most benevolent outcome for the hearing, but also that our president be angelically and otherwise supported to be a wise and strong leader right now, and that he will be assisted in various ways to make most benevolent decisions. To me it doesn't really matter how or to whom he prays...as long as his heart is open for higher guidance, and the strength to act on it. So if I may ask my you AP, and my fellow MBO-ers to remember South Africa in your BPs... Thank you

[WarrenG]

Originally Posted by WarrenG

So then I got a little more ambitious. I asked for £100 tomorrow without having to do any form of work that annoys me, plus another one which I won't spell out in detail but let's just say I took the "Beautifil Girl" theme and ran with it a bit.

OK I sold an advert on a website today for... go on, have a guess... £100! It was from an inquiry I had about a week ago, so it's not completely out of left field, but it's interesting that it came today. Plus they originally offered less, but I asked for that amount and they agreed without any further negotiation.

I also got some other unexpected income, about £40. Which is nice, I'm very grateful and not complaining, but I did ask for £100 so apparently guardian angels aren't good with maths.

Nothing happened girl-wise today, but that's fine as I didn't have time for any girl-business today, I had spreadsheet-business to do instead. Plus I didn't specifically ask for it today.

[illbreaker]

I've been asking for a small MBO for about a day now and nothing.

[Sbonn]

Originally Posted by illbreaker

I've been asking for a small MBO for about a day now and nothing.

From what I understand MBOs can get a bit picky over wording sometimes .. maybe post the one you have been requesting and see if AP444 or Tom might have some insight into better wording.

HUGS

[illbreaker]

Wording has an effect on the effictiveness of MBOs? Here's what I've been asking for:

"I request the most benevolent outcome in having XXXXX reply to my email. Thank you."

This is a business-related matter.

[Sbonn]

ok to my understanding right now (AP444, Tom or anyone else please feel free to adjust )

MBOs flow like this

I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that I may hear from XXXXX regarding a business matter in the quickest possible way and may the results be more then I hope for or expect, thank you.


I find MBOs good in that they allow me to detach from the outcome and just flow.

HUGS!

[WarrenG]

Originally Posted by illbreaker

Wording has an effect on the effictiveness of MBOs? Here's what I've been asking for:

"I request the most benevolent outcome in having XXXXX reply to my email. Thank you."

This is a business-related matter.

If they replied in 6 years that would still be a fulfilment of your request...

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by illbreaker

Wording has an effect on the effictiveness of MBOs? Here's what I've been asking for:

"I request the most benevolent outcome in having XXXXX reply to my email. Thank you."

This is a business-related matter.

That's not a good way to start with MBO's. When you say an MBO like that you're demanding your GA grant your wish, no matter what. It's much better to start out with general MBO's, for everyday things. It would really help if you read through this whole thread, starting with the beginning....there's plenty of MBO's in it from others you can use.... start there.

[illbreaker]

Originally Posted by AngelPsychic444

That's not a good way to start with MBO's. When you say an MBO like that you're demanding your GA grant your wish, no matter what. It's much better to start out with general MBO's, for everyday things. It would really help if you read through this whole thread, starting with the beginning....there's plenty of MBO's in it from others you can use.... start there.

I've read this thread from beginning already. Maybe I should re-read. Thanks. However, I never use a demanding tone or connotation. I try to make an emotional plea.

[illbreaker]

Originally Posted by Sbonn

ok to my understanding right now (AP444, Tom or anyone else please feel free to adjust )

MBOs flow like this

I request a Most Benevolent Outcome that I may hear from XXXXX regarding a business matter in the quickest possible way and may the results be more then I hope for or expect, thank you.


I find MBOs good in that they allow me to detach from the outcome and just flow.

HUGS!

Thank you. I also tried a similar one, omitting the nature of it being a business matter. It's either hit or miss for me.

[illbreaker]

Originally Posted by WarrenG

If they replied in 6 years that would still be a fulfilment of your request...

Oh I forgot to add "soon" when I typed this up. Even though everyone has different viewpoints as to what "soon" might be.

[Christa]

Originally Posted by illbreaker

I've read this thread from beginning already. Maybe I should re-read. Thanks. However, I never use a demanding tone or connotation. I try to make an emotional plea.

I think what AP means here is that it's a good idea to leave your requests 'open ended', so to speak. An MBO is a surrender to the angels' higher knowledge of a situation...and leaving it to them to organise the best outcome for it!

However, I agree with the poster who said that it's sometimes all in the wording. You can be specific in your requests, but rather say something like: "I request the MBO for XXX replying to my e-mail, for my highest good...etc" The angels are not daft, they know what we ask for; it's just that the MBOs are also affirmations of a kind, and if the words we use or our expectations are not aligned with the best outcome, we block ourselves on a certain level.

Well, let me not get too technical. Happy MBO-ing!

[illbreaker]

Thank you Christa. Your post was informative.

[Sponge]

Hi Christa, I'd like to attract some new 'great' friends into my life, not having much luck can you or anyone help me word an MBO?

I think the MBO you gave me to appreciate the friends I have and remain positive have helped a lot. I have focused on the 'now' a lot and haven't had too many negative or judgemental thoughts lately. But would love a close friend with similar interests and have been unsuccesful in manifesting thus far.

Thank you

[Christa]

Originally Posted by Sponge

Hi Christa, I'd like to attract some new 'great' friends into my life, not having much luck can you or anyone help me word an MBO?

I think the MBO you gave me to appreciate the friends I have and remain positive have helped a lot. I have focused on the 'now' a lot and haven't had too many negative or judgemental thoughts lately. But would love a close friend with similar interests and have been unsuccesful in manifesting thus far.

Thank you

I'm glad you're feeling relief from your negative thoughts, Sponge; I find the MBOs or talking to angels an easy way to do get myself out of a thinking-funk.

As far as new friends go - some things do take time and don't always come to us the way we expect at first! Quite a few months ago I MBO-ed for a friend and then met an incredible individual right here on this forum. Our correspondence has been a life-saver to me over and over again. However, he sits on the other side of the earth, so us meeting in person is not likely to happen soon. I kept on asking for friends closer to me whom I can meet with regularly, so the other day...Boom! I ran into an old friend - she's now a Oneness Blessing facilitator and I'm going to join their circle this coming Sunday. Where I'm going to meet even more like-minded people! So, don't give up, in good time you will receive exactly what you need.

Here is a couple of MBOs I think you might find helpful:

"I request the most benevolent outcome for help to become a powerful attractor of like-minded, spiritually compatible friends whom I can meet or connect with regularly. I ask that this will happen as soon as possible, for my highest good and with results that are greater than anything I hope or anticipate. Thank you!"

Also:

"I request the most benevolent outcome to release and let go of all conscious and unconscious resistance and fears to meet and bond with like-minded, spiritually compatible friends, for the highest good of all. I ask that the results are greater than anything I hope or anticipate, thank you!"

I have found the last one unexpectedly helpful in the past - we sometimes think we know exactly what we want, but our subconscious programming has other agendas.

Angels be with you and I wish you swift results!

[Sponge]

Brilliant, thank you!

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by Christa

Funny you mention world leaders, AP. Here in SA we have a revolutionary who has been scaring the country this past year or so with his hate speeches and radical political proposals. He is the leader of the ruling party's Youth League, and his many supporters often demonstrate disruptively and violently. About 4 days ago this man was finally charged by his party for bringing it in disrepute, among others, and the final hearing will be tomorrow.

My BP is not only for the most benevolent outcome for the hearing, but also that our president be angelically and otherwise supported to be a wise and strong leader right now, and that he will be assisted in various ways to make most benevolent decisions. To me it doesn't really matter how or to whom he prays...as long as his heart is open for higher guidance, and the strength to act on it. So if I may ask my you AP, and my fellow MBO-ers to remember South Africa in your BPs... Thank you

There have been so many posts that because of my work I can't keep up with them right now. We're leaving on vacation on Wednesday and I must send out an email blast to 81 pages of buyer emails, send out my weekly newsletter, finish my weekly blog, write an article for the January prediction edition for the Sedona Journal of Emergence, plus spend all day Tueday in meetings with a potential client flying in from Los Angeles. I'll probably sleep the whole flight to Florida on Wednesday.

So I can answer this one because I was asked about this guy in South Africa and this was in my July 2 newsletter:

Salomie in South Africa writes: Hope you are well and thanks for your most welcome newsletter. The question is about South Africa. There is a semi powerful individual that is attempting to start tremendous political unrest with the threat to nationalize Banks, nationalize Land and nationalize Mines. He is not part of the current government at this point. This we know will make the economy crumble, foreign investors will withdraw, and there will be a bigger brain drain than before. This will cause more crime an unrest if this is to happen. The individual responsible for this is a young man of 29.

Could you please ask Theo, if you have the time, if South Africa is safe from this, and if this is just exaggeration.

Theo, what are the probabilities of the banks, mines and land being nationalized in South Africa?

Absolutely no probability Tom or so miniscule as almost not to register. There will always be rebel rousers we will call them in each society who walk to the beat of a different drum. But South Africa is making giant strides and this would set them back many years, so the population, although impatient, will not allow those gains to slip away.
Tom

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by illbreaker

Wording has an effect on the effictiveness of MBOs? Here's what I've been asking for:

"I request the most benevolent outcome in having XXXXX reply to my email. Thank you."

This is a business-related matter.

Just keep in mind that if it does not happen it's because there might be some problem that would come up with that individual, or there might be something or someone better on the way. You have to TRUST in your GA who is able to see what's best for your future. That's why I suggest requesting MBO's for the mundane things like parking spots, a seat on a subway or bus, drive to and from work, etc. You get immediate feedback that this actually works.

[Christa]

Originally Posted by Tom3344

There have been so many posts that because of my work I can't keep up with them right now. We're leaving on vacation on Wednesday and I must send out an email blast to 81 pages of buyer emails, send out my weekly newsletter, finish my weekly blog, write an article for the January prediction edition for the Sedona Journal of Emergence, plus spend all day Tueday in meetings with a potential client flying in from Los Angeles. I'll probably sleep the whole flight to Florida on Wednesday.

So I can answer this one because I was asked about this guy in South Africa and this was in my July 2 newsletter:

Salomie in South Africa writes: Hope you are well and thanks for your most welcome newsletter. The question is about South Africa. There is a semi powerful individual that is attempting to start tremendous political unrest with the threat to nationalize Banks, nationalize Land and nationalize Mines. He is not part of the current government at this point. This we know will make the economy crumble, foreign investors will withdraw, and there will be a bigger brain drain than before. This will cause more crime an unrest if this is to happen. The individual responsible for this is a young man of 29.

Could you please ask Theo, if you have the time, if South Africa is safe from this, and if this is just exaggeration.

Theo, what are the probabilities of the banks, mines and land being nationalized in South Africa?

Absolutely no probability Tom or so miniscule as almost not to register. There will always be rebel rousers we will call them in each society who walk to the beat of a different drum. But South Africa is making giant strides and this would set them back many years, so the population, although impatient, will not allow those gains to slip away.
Tom

Yes, thanks Tom, I remember this particular channeling of yours and it is very heartening. My sense has also always been that this man's talk is more hot air than anything else. However, I still BP that this will come about as gently as possible and that all our leaders be blessed, as there are many probabilities to every situation's outcome after all. Thank you so much for taking the time to reply though. May the angels smooth your way through your hectic schedule!

[illbreaker]

Originally Posted by Tom3344

Just keep in mind that if it does not happen it's because there might be some problem that would come up with that individual, or there might be something or someone better on the way. You have to TRUST in your GA who is able to see what's best for your future. That's why I suggest requesting MBO's for the mundane things like parking spots, a seat on a subway or bus, drive to and from work, etc. You get immediate feedback that this actually works.

Gotcha. I have had luck with minor requests. But I see that the most benevolent outcome might not necessarily be what I want it to be. Thank you.

[Annie Zero]

Speaking of sleeping, my post from this thread (about a guy asking for advice about a bad entity/sleep paralysis):

Originally Posted by Annie Zero

/--/

You don't have to be religious or really believe anything definite about angels to request their help, at least I don't think so. I continued to experience getting stuck in sleep (almost like sleep paralysis, pure agony) -- and I requested, as described in this thread, for "nicer dreams", and I've been having more nicer dreams than I've ever had in my life. ...Er, and getting stuck is not as terrifying and I can deal with it.

/--/

The funny thing is, I made the request at an evening and noted it down (so I don't forget that I made the request) in a notepad which I usually use for dream recalling in the morning -- but I'm not really consistent with it so I didn't end up looking at the notes for quite a few days -- and I forgot I'd made the request.

Sometime later I mentioned in my blog that I've been having way nicer dreams than ever, and after that discovered in my notes that I'd made the request.

The same thing is usually true when practicing chaos magic (I'm a mage ) -- after casting a sigil or working a ritual, you're meant to forget about the intent of the working.

Or in muggle-speak, after making the request, let go of the lust of result. Completely.

[WarrenG]

Originally Posted by Tom3344

Just keep in mind that if it does not happen it's because there might be some problem that would come up with that individual, or there might be something or someone better on the way. You have to TRUST in your GA who is able to see what's best for your future. That's why I suggest requesting MBO's for the mundane things like parking spots, a seat on a subway or bus, drive to and from work, etc. You get immediate feedback that this actually works.

I have a box of matches on my table. I made an MBO that it land with the logo facing up when I throw it. I'm the only one who would see the results. But it failed the first and third time I tried.

Why didn't it work? What's more mundane than which side a matchbox lands when I throw it?

[mallie]

I have a box of matches on my table. I made an MBO that it land with the logo facing up when I throw it. I'm the only one who would see the results. But it failed the first and third time I tried.

Why didn't it work? What's more mundane than which side a matchbox lands when I throw it?

Hi WarrenG,

Well maybe AP or Tom has more insight - but my guess is you have some doubts in your mind of whether or not your GA exists and/or is really helping you or some doubts about whether or not mbo's really work. Doubts can get in the way of any mbo or affirmation working quickly and easily. Remember your GA (like God) can only do for you what it can do thru your thoughts, feelings and beliefs. Your GA will work with you to help you to clear away these doubts, but you also need to do your part to help them as well.

Also, attachment to the outcome can hinder the results. For instance, you probably had a pretty strong attachment to the matchbox landing on one side and along with the doubts is going to get in the way of it being successful. Just keep doing the mbo's and strengthening your faith in them. I would also highly recommend getting Tom's 2 books "THE GENTLE WAY" and "THE GENTLE WAY 2" to understand mbo's and how they work even more thoroughly.

Like I said maybe AP and/or Tom has some more insight into why this failed - since you are right - this was not a life-changing issue and there really should not be any reason why your GA could not help you succeed with this.

[AngelPsychic444]

Originally Posted by WarrenG

I have a box of matches on my table. I made an MBO that it land with the logo facing up when I throw it. I'm the only one who would see the results. But it failed the first and third time I tried.

Why didn't it work? What's more mundane than which side a matchbox lands when I throw it?

Hold off on the match book thing, and ask for MBO's for good health or any problem you have with not feeling well. Do MBO's for better sleep at night. Do MBO's for when you go to a store to buy something and watch all the little synchronicities happen, do MBO's for any little problems that pop-up in your life. If you get a headache do an MBO for it, if you wish to increase you psychic abilites do an MBO for it.

I'm sure you see what I'm doing here....don't just say one MBO then sit back and watch.... say many MBO's all day long for all sorts of things, and you'll see results all over the place.

[Tom3344]

Originally Posted by WarrenG

I have a box of matches on my table. I made an MBO that it land with the logo facing up when I throw it. I'm the only one who would see the results. But it failed the first and third time I tried.

Why didn't it work? What's more mundane than which side a matchbox lands when I throw it?

It's as if you are gambling and throwing dice. There are ways to control the dice to roll certain numbers consistantly. It's in YOUR power to do this, and it is as if you make your own decisions and do not involve you GA. What your GA did was perhaps to bring this explanation your way. It is not something that comes to you magically that involves other people.

[Christa]

Originally Posted by Annie Zero

The same thing is usually true when practicing chaos magic (I'm a mage ) -- after casting a sigil or working a ritual, you're meant to forget about the intent of the working.

Or in muggle-speak, after making the request, let go of the lust of result. Completely.

I love this post! 'Letting go of the need for results' means the same as 'releasing the outcome' (yes?), but I prefer your way of putting it. Thanks for elucidating muddle..I mean, muggle-speak.