A psychic told me to split up with my boyfriend

[Catlady72]

We started talking again, already though things are going badly already, my life force and low self-esteem feel a bit lower, I don't know whose fault this is but I'm working on improving my self-esteem nevertheless
Last night I went to a tarot meet-up group and a lady came up to me and said she had to give me a message though she didn't know me - she told me to split up with my boyfriend because there was bullying going on and urged me to get out, even to go to a hostel if necessary! We don't live together though and he is not physically violent

Would you place much stock in this, it was really strange, I was lost at the time and didn't know whether to stay or go

I found it a bit spooky - she said she was an old friend who had known me many years in spirit

[supertom]

its a tough one normally a psychic just gives you the informations tells you what is happening and whats likely to happen and let you go from there, it seems like however you need a some extra power to make that decision.

I think you need to look up definitions of bullying in relationships and see if you can identify those things going on in your relationships, if they are than its in your best interest to leave.

you dont need to put any stock into what she said, because what she said you can just identify by yourself, is it did happen in the past than its probably best you disconnect with that person.

[ssandra]

From what you have said about this guy in the past, and how glad and happy you were once you broke it off last time... I'd say to listen to her!

You said it yourself... your self esteem is dropping again, you don't feel good... that is not the right way to be in a relationship.

Stop this relationship now, and WHEN you feel 100% self confident, 100% good about yourself, 100% happy... IF you still feel like being with him... go for it.

But right now, he is not right or healthy for you. Let him go. You don't need him.

[Nimue]

Bullying is bad, even if it's not physical...sometimes emotional violence is worse than physical (I don't know how bad things actually are in your relationship, just saying). Your guy is supposed to love you and take care of you, not bullying you-which, if I understand well, he does. It doesn't take a psychic to see that something's wrong if that's the case. Wether you decide to be with him or not, my advice is to not let him make you feel like c**p! By no means!

If she's a real psychic maybe she only sensed there's a lot of negativeness in the relationship, and didn't concentrate on wether you live together or not. If she's not...then nevermind. Don't be easy to believe such things, there are many fakes around-just keep an open mind.

[spacecadetglow]

Originally Posted by ssandra

Stop this relationship now, and WHEN you feel 100% self confident, 100% good about yourself, 100% happy... IF you still feel like being with him... go for it.

But right now, he is not right or healthy for you. Let him go. You don't need him.

Ditto to that.

If it's not making you feel good, why are you still talking to him? Serious question.

[ar81]

Originally Posted by Catlady72

We started talking again, already though things are going badly already, my life force and low self-esteem feel a bit lower, I don't know whose fault this is but I'm working on improving my self-esteem nevertheless
Last night I went to a tarot meet-up group and a lady came up to me and said she had to give me a message though she didn't know me - she told me to split up with my boyfriend because there was bullying going on and urged me to get out, even to go to a hostel if necessary! We don't live together though and he is not physically violent

Would you place much stock in this, it was really strange, I was lost at the time and didn't know whether to stay or go

I found it a bit spooky - she said she was an old friend who had known me many years in spirit

Do not follow orders. Whatever other people tell you are just points of view. It is up to you to decide when you feel inner peace and you feel that inner voice of wisdom telling you what to do. A good psychic will never give you orders like this one.

If you follow orders and later you discover that the advice was bogus, you may feel very bad. The wheel of your life is yours only, nobody has the right to sit in the driver's seat of your life, not a psychic or a psychic wannabe.

Only newbie psychics would give orders.

One tip: If the relationship helps you to grow as a human being, things are going fine. If it is about retaining, it is going down the drain.

[blondefish]

Hi,

I too have been shaken up by something a tarot card reader said.

I went for a reading yesterday and the tarot reader said my relationship is one just for convenience sake and that we are not a good match. My boyfriend and I have been together 2.5 years and I think we have a serious relationship (we live together). However the psychic insisted that we didn't love each other. I am now starting to doubt my own feelings. He is my first boyfriend and maybe I have been mistaken by what I think love is???

I am really confused and could use some advice/opinion. Thanks

[Frankmat]

Originally Posted by Catlady72

We started talking again, already though things are going badly already, my life force and low self-esteem feel a bit lower, I don't know whose fault this is but I'm working on improving my self-esteem nevertheless
Last night I went to a tarot meet-up group and a lady came up to me and said she had to give me a message though she didn't know me - she told me to split up with my boyfriend because there was bullying going on and urged me to get out, even to go to a hostel if necessary! We don't live together though and he is not physically violent

Would you place much stock in this, it was really strange, I was lost at the time and didn't know whether to stay or go

I found it a bit spooky - she said she was an old friend who had known me many years in spirit

Regardless of what she told you... I have nothing but disrespect for psychics or claimed psychics... who go up and give random messages to people without asking them if they would like to receive the message.

I would have told her to kindly go F herself if she did it to me... and then told her I was pretty sure that I told her to go F herself in our previous life as well.

If she wasn't a psychic and went up to a stranger and said your partner is no good for you... she would rightly get abused and called a nut... and maybe even receive a slap in the face... but people think because they are psychic that gives them the right to give someone a message without asking if they want to hear it.

[jordeh]

Definitely take her advice! Even without the psychic's advice, there should be alarm bells ringing in your head about this relationship and you just have to ask yourself whether you want to put up with it or not

Good luck!

[JustBe]

Originally Posted by Frankmat

Regardless of what she told you... I have nothing but disrespect for psychics or claimed psychics... who go up and give random messages to people without asking them if they would like to receive the message.

I would have told her to kindly go F herself if she did it to me... and then told her I was pretty sure that I told her to go F herself in our previous life as well.

If she wasn't a psychic and went up to a stranger and said your partner is no good for you... she would rightly get abused and called a nut... and maybe even receive a slap in the face... but people think because they are psychic that gives them the right to give someone a message without asking if they want to hear it.

Surprise, surprise.... People are different

If you have these beliefs, this vibration, then you won't get messages. Heck, you have chosen for it. Every good psychick will sense it.

Probably she's more open to it.

Why not, let people speak, you can always decide for yourself.

And in this case she is seriously thinking about the situation.

So, I think that's good.


But you never should trust a psychick per se. Even if you pay THOUSAND dollar ( congrats Erin & Steve for this REDICULOUS pricessss...Bleeeeehhh, bah.. they begun good (especially Steve)).

Another psychick may tell you COMPLETELY different things. So never trust as immidiately truth (allthough * Some* psychicks are so exetremely after 15 years you will find out EVERYTHING turned out to be right..)

[Frankmat]

Originally Posted by JustBe

Surprise, surprise.... People are different

If you have these beliefs, this vibration, then you won't get messages. Heck, you have chosen for it. Every good psychick will sense it.

Probably she's more open to it.

Why not, let people speak, you can always decide for yourself.

And in this case she is seriously thinking about the situation.

So, I think that's good.


But you never should trust a psychick per se. Even if you pay THOUSAND dollar ( congrats Erin & Steve for this REDICULOUS pricessss...Bleeeeehhh, bah.. they begun good (especially Steve)).

Another psychick may tell you COMPLETELY different things. So never trust as immidiately truth (allthough * Some* psychicks are so exetremely after 15 years you will find out EVERYTHING turned out to be right..)

Sorry absolute rubbish. She neither asked for the information nor did she want the information. The psychic has now created a karmic situation for themselves.

There is a MASSIVE difference between me passing on a message I received from a loved one for someone standing in front of me in the queue of a grocery store... to let them know their loved one that passed wants to let them know they are ok. I would never tell someone something as negative as this without them ASKING in the first place. That's the height of arrogance.

[JustBe]

Pffff...

I am happy to agree we disagree.