I was contacted by neighbor's deceased husband-help!

[BlueSun1967]

I've been aware of my abilities as a medium since i was a child....but have always had some confusion about how to use it....and am still working on trying to effectively harness it. When I hear about a death, whether someone close to me or not, I am sometimes contacted by the deceased person with a message for their loved ones.

Recently, a young female neighbor, whom I've never met, lost her husband to what some are saying suicide...although she is telling everyone he died by illness. Even though I have never met them, the deceased husband has been coming to me throughout the day since it happened on January 1. He wants me to tell his wife that he is okay and that this was a choice his soul made so that he could end this path in earth and continue his learning and healing in spirit.

My problem is that I don't know when/how to tell his wife. Do I send a letter? Knock on her door? How long should I wait? I'm very confused about how to handle this. I'm a total stranger and I don't even know if she is open to this stuff. I don't want to be inappropriate and yet her husband really wants me to do this! I mean...he would know better than me if I shoudl tell her, right??

Anyway...if anyone has experience with such things, I'd appreciate any advice.

Thank you in advance.

Blessings all.

[sups]

Hi,
I have no personal experience with what you have just described but i have read in a book by john edwards tht a woman had a similar experience to which she wrote a letter describing what the spirit said and ended it with ehr personal contact number and also mentioned that if the receipient thought this to be a fake or silly thing she could discard the letter.
maybe you can ask the husband to give you validation so tht his wife can believe him like a date or a name or something which only she would know.

hope this helps.
regards
sups

[Merrick1]

Well, as to me, you should do it. I would say that her husband came to you because he somehow knew that you would be aware of him and could pass the message on to his wife. So, why not to do it for him. And for her.

If you don't feel comfortable approaching her in person, you may just send her a written message, even anonymously. If she wants to, she may start looking for someone who would tell her more. But it would be good to introduce yourself later at least and talk to her about it. She will probably appreciate it.

Merrick

[Nimue]

An anonymous letter is a good idea...but you have to be able to act cool in any relevant reference, and don't seem to avoid your neighbor, if you don't want to risk getting caught...You don't have to go tell them later, either.

Asking for validation to enter in the letter would be really great, as you can let your neighbor to confirm wether it's real or not. If you can get such info I think you should send the letter-just use the confirmation info at the top of the letter, in order to not upset them without reason.