So Confused about Psychic Readings!

[gemgirl]

I was so pleased to find this website and hopefully someone will be able to answer my question.

I am so confused.

A guy from my past came back into my life after 12 years. He said that he realised that I was the love of his life and that he wanted to whisk me off abroad and take care of me (he had made a considerable amount of money over the years). I was over the moon and felt the same about him. The timing was just bad for us back then.

I had several readings with psychics from a very reputable tv programme and they all generally gave me the same readings, saying that he was genuine and that he loved me etc etc... but since that first meeting my life has been a nightmare... he had got himself involved in some stuff (through no fault of his own, or so I thought) and his problems started to become my problems. Whilst this was going on I still had readings and they still said the same... a couple even said that we would end up getting married.

I perservered with the situation but then his problems became too much to cope with and recently I decided to end the 'relationship'. And now I have readings and they say that he has a bad energy about him and that he has been lying and that he doesn't love me and that they couldn't see a future for us! Can anyone explain this... I know we make our own decisions in the end but I do feel that the initial readings definitely made me stick this out far longer than I should have.

Any insights would be very much appreciated.

thank you

[Richful]

Hi gemgirl,

I've also had very inaccurate readings over the years. I've especially never had any accuracy with predictions about my love life One thing to remember is that a reading is not a certainty anyway. I've always considered it the path that is most likely if I do nothing to change it - your free will is still free.

I don't know what "reputable tv program" you mean, I used to work in television and a lot of editing goes on to ensure that a program is watchable. I'd be skeptical of any psychic that is invested too strongly in being seen to be accurate.

Possibly it felt like such a wonderful time when he first wanted to whisk you away (it sounded that way), that your own feelings over-shadowed any readings you received.

Relying too much on psychics or readings for decision making isn't a good idea in the long run anyway, trust yourself. Only you can really know what's best for you

[Holistic Star]

I think you've had a valuable lesson in trusting your own intuition!

I wonder why you had so many readings about him. It suggests to me that you knew deep down it wasn't right, but you wanted someone else to tell you that, otherwise you would have just ignored that first reading and dumped him.

I often find when I keeps asking the same question over and over, I'm.very attached to the result and not really open to the right answer for me.


Btw hi and welcome to the boards

[Merrick1]

Hi gemgirl,

if you like, my girlfriend can make a short reading for you, with regards to this. I could send it to you in a PM.

Merrick

[gemgirl]

Thank you so much for your replies, can't believe how quickly you got back to me. The TV programme is on Sky and has been running for seven years. Their website has thousands of testimonials which are all very positive and it amazes me that no one has had readings like mine. Inconsistencies in readings.

Richful when I think back to readings I have had in the past re relationships they haven't been that accurate, it's almost as though when you have a positive feeling bout the person you are with they come back with a positive reading and when you start to have doubts they confirm your feelings.

Holistic Star, I have learnt a huge lesson and it has cost me dearly in more ways than one. I keep thinking to myself why did I attract him back into my life... But I have put up with a lot of grief from men in the past and this time I stood up for myself and told him that I deserve better. Maybe that was my lesson to learn. I just wish I had ended it sooner when I first started to have these doubts.

and Merrick that is very kind of you to offer a reading from your girlfriend, if she is happy to do it then yes I would be very grateful.

The Guy in question still text me to say that he loves me... and I actaully don't know what to believe anymore.

Thanks again to you all.

[Holistic Star]

Whether he loves you or not isn't the important question.

What's important is whether you like him!

By the sounds of it you didn't feel good when you were together. So pleased you stood up for what was right for you, took me a long time to learn that one too x

[Merrick1]

Hi gemgirl,

she will gladly do it . We already have late night here, so I will PM it to you tomorrow.

Blessings

Merrick

[wolfgang]

Psychic predictions aren ’t reliable. The future depends on what you choose to do today.


The only 100% accurate oracle is the passage of time. Only time will tell.
We need to learn the patience to let things unfold in divine time.


Psychics are people like you and I.They are not special beings with mystical powers. Everyone is capable of using their intuition. This means YOU need to start listening and trusting your intuition and stop asking others to do it for you.


Live in the present- the present is a gift. Don’t let life slip by while you worry about the future and mourn for the past. Live for today.


Become the person you want to be. Do it now. Make things happen. Create your future by what you choose to do today!


An idle mind is the devil's playground. GET BUSY!


Ask that the truth be revealed to you and then let go and let it unfold. Trust me…this is very powerful. And pray. If you have a goal- do the footwork and leave the results up to God. You can't control what the end result will be.


All the answers are already within you. Learn to trust your own intuition.


Never Ever Ever give a psychic money to cast a spell, burn a candle or to remove a curse!!! It's the oldest scam in the book.


Que sera, sera. Whatever will be, will be. The future’s not ours to see. Que sera, sera. Ain’t that the truth?

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